What are the benefits of doing nothing by Labkovsky

Since childhood, we have been taught to work. They say that if you allow yourself at least a little idleness, you will grow up a poor loser with eternal problems. And now in adulthood there are people who, even relaxing on the beach, always fuss, trying to find a job. But is that right?





Today's edition. "Site" He will give you the opinion of a well-known psychologist. Mikhail Labkowski about this issue. As it turns out, laziness is not that bad.





There are people who, even after work, and on weekends, and on vacation, in general, are always in a mobile state. For them, it is alien to lying on the beach or sofa. They will walk around the zoo, fix something, study, build something. In the evening, you also need to take something active, or go to the same disco. But under no circumstances should you be at rest. “Time should be spent usefully” is their motto. But actually, what's the use?





“To say that they enjoy their frenzied activity? Mostly not. They just can’t stop and consider it a great virtue. Like, I am such a person, everything in business, everything in business!
At the same time, such people do not give rest to anyone around. Especially children (not necessarily their own), says Mikhail Labkovsky. It's true, it is.





How often do you hear them reproach and exhortation, “I have already done everything?” Are the lessons written? Oral? - Clean the room then! The socks are lying ...” "Then go for a walk in the air!" Only a child, in order to avoid scandal or punishment, will do something and want to rest, they will again come up with an occupation. Not a moment of peace, otherwise he will grow up a janitor.





It is foolish to think that this teaches the child to work. It just annoys him. Constant reproaches, for example: "Holiday is his!" We never had free time! We've been working since we were 11. At dawn, they got up to ask chickens for food, then in the barn, and in the field. So they grew up strong, working ..." certainly will not help to grow a strong and strong-willed personality.





The well-known psychologist also says that people behave in this way not because such harmful ones were born, but because they were also persecuted by their own parents, and when their parents were children, the elders said worse. As a result, this call for permanent employment creates a sense of anxiety. This is a serious problem.





Here is what Mikhail Labkovsky says about this: “People fuss without apparent need and results only to drown out this anxiety. They think that if they stop, something will happen, something will be missed, a catastrophe and the end of the world. In fact, of course, nothing like that, and their head understands it, but the head can not help. Now it is easy to guess that this condition leads to depression and health problems.





“People, let yourself be lazy! It is not shameful, it is not harmful, and no one will scold you for not doing your homework, you are adults. Wean yourself from life in the old-fashioned style of "grab the bags, the station is leaving." Praise yourself not for hard work, but for harmony with yourself.

And please give the child these two hours a day that I talk about in every child lecture. For the normal development of the mind and brain of the child should be free-timeIt's completely free. I will. Understand, your name is not Stakhanov, and you do not need to meet the five-year plan in three years. You should just live and live as much as possible with pleasure, the psychologist advises.





The winner is not the one who is always anxious and fussy, but the one who is calm, confident and able to concentrate at the right moment. It is important to live in harmony with yourself and listen to your body. Cleaning a clean house instead of a day’s sleep has never benefited anyone.



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