Mass hysteria: photos of children in social networks What they turn around.

In modern times, privacy has become a relative concept. You do not trust strangers and rarely let strangers on the doorstep of the apartment, but it is worth opening your profile in one of the social networks - and please! Here are your photos in the bathroom and pictures of your children on the pot and a nice cat warmed up on the owner's pillow.





How often do you wonder what kind of hands your photos might fall into when you upload them to the Internet? Probably rarely, if you think about it at all. But your photos and detailed reports on the regime of the day can harm not only you, but also the most valuable and dear to you people – your children!

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The desire to make life public and become famous due to the ridiculous antics of kids may not like your children when they grow up and learn how to use a computer. They can read everything you wrote about. Friends of your children will also find these photos and records, and at the current level of upbringing and arrogance, such a photo-compromising can ruin the blood.





Just think - there is still a small and unintelligent man. His every step, his entire daily routine is detailed and painted. The achievements and failures of your child can be followed by everyone, from the neighbor of Aunt Lena and ending with the distant relatives. Then such relatives come to visit and talk about what your son or daughter is funny in his first love, on pots and in green (chicken pox does not go away for the second week).





A son or daughter listens to these conversations, and they become sad and unpleasant. It would seem that an unformed person can understand or feel. Maybe I did. Childhood grief and resentment are remembered for a long time. From children’s problems and complexes, adult troubles and low self-esteem are formed. And now adults are already suffering, can not live quietly, because once someone was ridiculed.





It turns out that a child who has no choice loses his privacy immediately, from birth. Its development, diapers, drooling and toothless smiles can be watched by the whole world. Or a few friends, good and not so good. Non-stop publications highlight the slightest change in children’s fragile lives. What if an attacker decides to use this information?





You teach your children not to trust strangers. Do not go anywhere with them, do not get into cars for any mats and run to their parents, as soon as there is danger. But the thing is, little kids. judgment Not fully formed. And the offer to go see a puppy can be welcomed with joy and enthusiasm. Then there are problems, ransoms, police, “Help Find My Daughter” ads, and futile cries for help.





Parents will blame everyone but themselves who foolishly reported on the world air every day where a child goes to school, what music school he goes to, what his puppy's name is, and where his grandparents work. The knowledge of the criminal about your life (after all, you yourself tell about it in detail and with illustrations) will play into his hand.





Next time your child stops taking photos, think about it. Maybe he's doing it consciously. Maybe the little man doesn't like to be in the crosshairs of a smartphone camera and then watch his photos discussed. Because consciousness in modern children wakes up much earlier than adults can imagine.





Editorial Board There is another side to the issue. What will you write about when your child grows up? Now you're filling your friends' tape with an endless stream of photos and exclamations. But time will pass, and this meaning He will leave with an adult child. How will you attract your friends and companions then?

Remember that your child is only a guest in your home. It needs to be nurtured and nurtured in safety, but trying to find the meaning of life in it is not worth it. So you will not oblige a loved one and will remain self-sufficient, even when your relationship between parent and child will become much thinner.