Raising boys is not a woman's job. Many mothers allow themselves too much...

In ancient Sparta very strictly treated not only the physical data of the child (from sick babies just got rid of), but also followed the mental development of the future generation. It was believed that the education of a boy is not a woman's occupation. That is why the sons were separated from their mothers early and transferred to the care of male educators.





There were similar views on parenting in old Russia. Boy nobles from an early age were under the supervision of several educators: a nanny and a serf uncle. Later, trained governesses and governors were invited to the children. This was done in order to instill in the future heir a number of useful qualities.





In the twenty-first century, everything has changed dramatically. The number of single mothers is increasing every year. Because of this, many boys do not have the opportunity to communicate daily with the stronger sex. As a result, most children become hostages of their position: they absorb like a sponge female habits and views on life.





Therefore, many mothers should avoid the most common mistakes in the boyhood. By the way, some fathers also sin this way.

How to properly raise a boy

1. Lip kisses
   Psychologists insist that kissing on the lips is a purely sexual act! It has nothing to do with motherly love and tenderness. To express their feelings for the son, ordinary hugs, tickles and kisses in the cheeks, forehead, nose are enough.
   
   
   
2. Personal opinion of the child
   Every mother of a boy should be taught to take into account the opinion of his son. Thus, it is possible to instill in the child the most important quality - to take responsibility for their own actions. Not all adult men can become the head of the family. So the boy’s parents need to teach him this from childhood.
   
   
   
3. Mistakes that lead to the conquest of new heights
   Boys are usually more agile than girls. Therefore, the main task of parents is not to suppress this activity. Want to go to several sections at once? Let him go. Even if he doesn't like boxing or wrestling. Let him try himself in different directions. This will help him in life because he knows what he really likes. The only caveat is that he takes responsibility for his decisions.
   
   
   
   
   
4. Get dressed in his presence
   As soon as a little boy becomes self-sufficient, his mother must begin to treat him like a man. In no case should you show up in front of a child in a negligee.
   
   
   
5. Discussion with outsiders of his misconduct
   In no case should you discuss the child’s mistakes with friends, especially in his presence. This behavior of a mother can deeply hurt a child aged 4-5 years.
   
   
   
6. Laughing at a boy
   Even if your son is extremely charming and charming, you should not laugh at him. Often, boys should explain their laughter: “I’m curious to watch you talk like an adult.” I'm proud of you!
   
   
   

Not only mothers, but also grandmothers of boys should definitely listen to these tips! Share useful information with your friends.