10 Signs That You Are Just a Replacement (Sorry!)

It happens that you are full of hope, build manhoodGive him your love, care, and time. And then it turns out he didn't have any serious plans for you. You were just a backup. So I interrupted you until I found something interesting for myself. Or it turns out he has a woman and you were just in case.





Find out, how men treat womenIt's complicated, but it's possible. About 10 alarm bells will tell the editors "Site".

How to understand a man's feelings
  1. He's making plans with you last minute.
    You want to spend time with him, but you rarely plan ahead. You have to rush to the shower and make up if you want to meet him because he invites you 30 minutes before you meet him or after you decide not to go anywhere. On vacation, you also take leave at work at the last minute, as soon as your loved one suddenly decides. He is trying to keep his options open. He doesn’t want to make plans with you in case something or someone more interesting comes along.





  2. He takes a long time to respond to your messages.
    He can start a dialogue himself. But he responds to your messages for a very long time, especially if you want to clarify or plan something. You see that he is online, even posting some posts, but he does not write anything to you. I don't think he's seeing your message. He just doesn’t want to have a dialogue.



  3. He's always late.
    You set up an 8:00 p.m. meeting. You came, and he's just leaving the house. And it always does. Of course, he has a lot of excuses, but in the modern world, there is nothing to prevent him from warning in advance about being late or rescheduling a meeting for another time. He doesn't respect you or your time. He does what he wants, without considering your feelings.



  4. He's not looking for you.
    Someplace to have dinner or have fun, he doesn't invite you. Except for his house, because he doesn't even bother to come to you. He is comfortable: you are with him, but he does not spend much time and money.



  5. It is ruled only by animal instinct.
    You're great in bed. He's rushing to you for this case and trying hard. But he doesn't share his thoughts, his plans, his secrets with you. He's not really interested in your life either. He's interested in your body and nothing more.



  6. He's cancelling plans.
    He makes you look forward to meeting him and then disappoints you. He doesn't say the time in advance. He waits until the last minute until you're ready to leave the house to tell you he can't today.



  7. He doesn't represent you.
    You two only spend time together. He never invites you to parties, weddings of friends, and certainly does not even hint at acquaintance with relatives. If his acquaintances and colleagues do not even know your name, then most likely you do not realize the importance to him.



  8. He doesn't listen to you.
    There's not much to say here. If he doesn’t remember your birthday without a reminder on social media, what kind of love can we talk about? Also, he rarely remembers what you said or asked for.



  9. You're the only one trying.
    Women always give themselves hope. They try, cry, forgive, believe that everything will change. But nothing changes, and you're the only one who works for this relationship. Nothing good will come of it.



  10. He has an excuse for everything.
    He doesn't have time for you because he's too busy at work. He was late because he forgot to take something. He does not take serious steps because the experience of the past relationship was very sad. He always has something to say. But it doesn't make you or your relationship any better. When you want something, you find opportunities, not excuses.





It is very difficult to recognize and accept the fact that a relationship has no future. And especially since you did not represent any value to a man other than carnal pleasures. Of course, this is a very superficial list of signs that for a man you are just a backup. After all, every relationship is unique, and every man has his own character. But often men’s indifference and excuses indicate frivolous intentions.

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