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Why you shouldn’t talk about your plans

We all like to plan for the future, and even more so, to dream. As soon as we wish something worthwhile, we hurry to tell everyone about the dream. We hasten to inform the world that here is a little more - and we will become very happy owners of the desired and cherished.

But psychologists do not recommend this. No matter how much they burst emotions from the inside, they say you should not share them. Here's why.



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How to fulfill a wish
  1. You risk losing energy.
    The universe is a very wisely organized substance. As soon as a desire is formed within us, it sends us the necessary energy to fulfill it. It is important to understand that the amount of energy released by the universe is limited. It is only as long as it is necessary to implement the intention.



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    When you are passionately discussing your plans with friends, just for fun, you are wasting energy. She goes to talk, not to do business.

    The dream lacks strength and inspiration. The fuse is wasted, all gone into words.



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  2. Ignoring the tricks of the subconscious.
    The subconscious does not see the difference between reality and the pictures that appear in our imagination. When you are aiming for a goal, your subconscious mind is trying to help you achieve it. It looks for ways to achieve it, analyzes them and chooses the best. Psychologists note that consciousness and the subconscious are closely related. To tell the subconscious in which direction to search, experts recommend visualizing your goals.





    At the same time, when you spread about your plans on every corner, describing the cherished dream as already realized, the brain begins to treat it as a fait accompli. I don’t understand why I should continue to work on what has already been done.





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  3. You forget the result.
    Action is better than any conversation. To make the wish come trueYou have to make an effort. And if you're talking, it's just business. It is better to brag after everything is done. On the other hand, if for some reason you change your mind to go to your goal or postpone it for later, no one will be able to accuse you of lack of results and nonsense.

    Reputation will be preserved, you will not be called frivolous. You will realize one dream and be able to boldly implement new plans and desire.



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Now that the secrets of the subconscious have been revealed to you, try to apply the advice of psychologists in practice. Write in the comments what happened.

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