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Derek Sivers: Why you can't tell anyone about his plans
Why is it important not to tell anyone about your goals and future plans? On this subject, says entrepreneur Derek Sivers.
Derek Sivers, the founder of the largest website with indie music CD Baby, talks about why it is necessary to keep their plans secret.
"Each of us has some kind of main goal in life. Think about it for a second! You need to feel my most important personal goal. Imagine that right now you have decided and are ready to achieve it. Imagine that today you are telling someone about this intention. Isn't it nice to say it out loud? Imagine their congratulations and admiration in their eyes. Don't you feel that you have done another step, like your future achievements become part of your personality?
But the situation is bad because it cost you to keep your mouth shut. Now that good feeling now will only hinder you to achieve your goal. Numerous psychological experiments have proven that telling others about your goal makes it less likely to happen.
When you have a goal, you need to take some steps to do some work to achieve it. When you tell someone about your plans, and they know about them — psychologists call this social reality: the mind is like trapped in a sense that all made. And what did you feel satisfaction, you are less interested in the actual hard work".published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: theoryandpractice.ru/posts/2630-derek-sivers-schitaet-chto-nikomu-nelzya-rasskazyvat-o-svoikh-planakh
Derek Sivers, the founder of the largest website with indie music CD Baby, talks about why it is necessary to keep their plans secret.
"Each of us has some kind of main goal in life. Think about it for a second! You need to feel my most important personal goal. Imagine that right now you have decided and are ready to achieve it. Imagine that today you are telling someone about this intention. Isn't it nice to say it out loud? Imagine their congratulations and admiration in their eyes. Don't you feel that you have done another step, like your future achievements become part of your personality?
But the situation is bad because it cost you to keep your mouth shut. Now that good feeling now will only hinder you to achieve your goal. Numerous psychological experiments have proven that telling others about your goal makes it less likely to happen.
When you have a goal, you need to take some steps to do some work to achieve it. When you tell someone about your plans, and they know about them — psychologists call this social reality: the mind is like trapped in a sense that all made. And what did you feel satisfaction, you are less interested in the actual hard work".published
P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©
Source: theoryandpractice.ru/posts/2630-derek-sivers-schitaet-chto-nikomu-nelzya-rasskazyvat-o-svoikh-planakh
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