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Why do you want to wear a wedding dress?
Our parents and grandparents first got married and then lived together. But things are different today. Young people have become more progressive, and many young couples begin to live together long before the formalization of the relationship. There are many reasons: there is no money for a luxurious wedding, boundless love does not tolerate separation and “you can sign at any time.”
Only the longer you live with your beloved man in a civil marriage, the less reason he has to want to legalize your relationship. And why? You're already together, what else do you need? Women from childhood imagine in detail how the wedding ceremony will take place, men think differently.
And yet Why do men not want to get married?In a civil marriage?
Sometimes it seems that civil marriage was invented by men and civil marriage by women. This is logical, because in a civil marriage you are together, but at any time you can break up. Civil marriage is much more serious, involves marital duties and publicity.
Some men agree with women not because they want to spend the rest of their days with one, but because it is comfortable.
Even civil marriage is not decided by all men, many of them are “burned” in their youth and prefer to live under their parents’ wing or alone for as long as possible. You can't drag them under the crown with a stick or a carrot.
But if you have been living in a civil marriage for several years, everything is fine, you love each other, is it so difficult for him to please his beloved woman with a small ring? Nothing will change, and she's happy.
No matter what progressive age we live in, for many men, marriage seems to be the end of the world. Allegedly, the stamp in the passport dictates to single wolves by nature what to do, but this is not true.
The paradox is that the earlier a couple gets married, the more likely the marriage bond will be stronger. There is hope even after a long cohabitation, you just need to change your thinking.
Have you ever thought that when you stop thinking about something, the problem solves itself? An offer from the lover is not even a problem, but a matter of time.
If a man doesn't take this step for a long time, maybe it's you. Try instead of constant hints and conversations about marriage to prepare his favorite dish, in general, start cooking and cleaning, do not wear stretched things at home and stop squeezing pimples with him. It's banal, but if he sees all these bad habits every day, it's not surprising. Why doesn't he get married? on you.
Men’s perception of marriage is different from women’s, but the basics are the same. If for a woman marriage is a stable relationship and confidence in a man, then the man wants to be sure that the wife in two years of marriage will not grow fat and will not stop shaving her legs.
Talking about marriage and clarifying relationships will only make things worse and risk ruining the relationship. If you live together and have already discussed this issue, and he said that first he wants to make repairs and save money for a beautiful wedding, then help him and wait.
It is difficult, but it is clear that the man has serious intentions. But if he says that he just does not want, then you need to think about whether you need an open relationship and how long it will last.
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Civil marriage is not for everyone, but there are couples who sign up after ten or even twenty years of living together, it even refreshes their relationship and brings them closer together.
Share your thoughts on civil marriage in the comments. Tell your friends why men are in no hurry to get married.
Only the longer you live with your beloved man in a civil marriage, the less reason he has to want to legalize your relationship. And why? You're already together, what else do you need? Women from childhood imagine in detail how the wedding ceremony will take place, men think differently.
And yet Why do men not want to get married?In a civil marriage?
Sometimes it seems that civil marriage was invented by men and civil marriage by women. This is logical, because in a civil marriage you are together, but at any time you can break up. Civil marriage is much more serious, involves marital duties and publicity.
Some men agree with women not because they want to spend the rest of their days with one, but because it is comfortable.
Even civil marriage is not decided by all men, many of them are “burned” in their youth and prefer to live under their parents’ wing or alone for as long as possible. You can't drag them under the crown with a stick or a carrot.
But if you have been living in a civil marriage for several years, everything is fine, you love each other, is it so difficult for him to please his beloved woman with a small ring? Nothing will change, and she's happy.
No matter what progressive age we live in, for many men, marriage seems to be the end of the world. Allegedly, the stamp in the passport dictates to single wolves by nature what to do, but this is not true.
The paradox is that the earlier a couple gets married, the more likely the marriage bond will be stronger. There is hope even after a long cohabitation, you just need to change your thinking.
Have you ever thought that when you stop thinking about something, the problem solves itself? An offer from the lover is not even a problem, but a matter of time.
If a man doesn't take this step for a long time, maybe it's you. Try instead of constant hints and conversations about marriage to prepare his favorite dish, in general, start cooking and cleaning, do not wear stretched things at home and stop squeezing pimples with him. It's banal, but if he sees all these bad habits every day, it's not surprising. Why doesn't he get married? on you.
Men’s perception of marriage is different from women’s, but the basics are the same. If for a woman marriage is a stable relationship and confidence in a man, then the man wants to be sure that the wife in two years of marriage will not grow fat and will not stop shaving her legs.
Talking about marriage and clarifying relationships will only make things worse and risk ruining the relationship. If you live together and have already discussed this issue, and he said that first he wants to make repairs and save money for a beautiful wedding, then help him and wait.
It is difficult, but it is clear that the man has serious intentions. But if he says that he just does not want, then you need to think about whether you need an open relationship and how long it will last.
476044
Civil marriage is not for everyone, but there are couples who sign up after ten or even twenty years of living together, it even refreshes their relationship and brings them closer together.
Share your thoughts on civil marriage in the comments. Tell your friends why men are in no hurry to get married.
