Advice of Mikhail Labkovsky for women

Family psychotherapist Mikhail Labkovsky, although known for his sharpness of statements and some rigidity in judgment, his lectures about love, marriage and relationships want to listen again and again. His many years of experience saves families, and the simple rules of life that the specialist offers help women become happy, keep love or eventually meet the perfect partner.



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"Site" I carefully studied the advice of the family psychology guru and chose the brightest ones. Let's figure out why we women love this way and not otherwise and how to fix a relationship if something suddenly broke and went wrong. Quickly read. 15 Tips for Love from Mikhail Labkovsky for those who are in a relationship and for those who are in search.

Mikhail Labkovsky's Rules Advice for Those in Relationships

1. “If you want to get married, date or even live together for six months or a year and nothing happens, ask once if he wants a family and a wedding. If a man is not ready to start a family, then it is time to say goodbye to him. Good, of course. Like, I am very warm to you and will continue in the same spirit, but away from you.
   
   
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2. “Any woman, and I emphasize this, who has been at home for years and is only engaged in household and children, is degraded. It's inevitable. And in the end, the man gets bored with his wife, he begins to consider her stupid, and there until the divorce half a step. And notice: initially the man did not insist on anything, this woman happily and clapping her hands decided to sit at home.
3. “If he bothers you, just break up with him. Don't be afraid to be alone. No man in the whole world is worth breaking himself, bending under him, neglecting his desires and needs. None.
   
   
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4. “It’s simple: it is what it is. And you are who you are. Either you're good together or you need to break up. It is better before you take out a mortgage and have three children.”
5. “He who is mentally healthy is guided by his feelings and always chooses himself. Neither beauty nor love requires sacrifice. And if they do, it's definitely not your story. Get out. There is no purpose for which to endure something in a relationship.”
   
   
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Advice for those in search

1. “No one needs someone who does not need himself. And the one who accepts himself as he is, lives a tasty, fulfilling life, despite all possible everyday problems.”
   
   
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2. “A woman who is pathologically unable to get along with men always has a history of problems with her father. A man who cannot find a woman, and often a job, must have a difficult relationship with his mother.
3. “If you and a man are uncomfortable on a first, second, or third date, don’t schedule a fourth date. In the first meetings, a man shows himself in the best way, and if you already find it unpleasant to be with him, nothing good will come out of this relationship.
   
   
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4. “If you want to get married, you have to stop thinking about it. It's the same as wanting to have a doll on the hood, a veil and the rest of the junk. In healthy people, the situation looks a little different. First, they have a need to love. With this need to love, they find a man who loves them.”
5. “One should never associate with married men. Fish is sold in the fish shop, meat - in the meat shop. Don't waste time. A married man does not need a wife, he already has one at home.
   
   
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General advice

1. “You don’t stand on tiptoes all your life, and it is always more painful to be disappointed than to initially show yourself to be real.”
   
   
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2. “The world is not interested in you as long as you are not interested in yourself. It is impossible to build a family or friendship with someone who has a complex, contradictory relationship with himself, full of discontent and all sorts of remorse.”
3. “If you don’t like the way he treats you, does something unpleasant, you tell him once.” If things don't change, goodbye.
   
   
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4. “You have to deal with the head, not the suitors. When a woman says, “I loved,” it’s often not about love. This is a story about a drug dealer who gives her the necessary suffering. Healthy love is about how happy you are.
5. “A normal person does not continue a relationship in which he is not respected. He will not even begin them.”
   
   
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Let him. Labkowski on love He speaks with a certain rudeness and cynicism, his words have great power. The psychologist advises to behave like this every day, and only then will you be able to change yourself on your own. And there, you see, life will slowly improve, and unhealthy painful relationships will end by themselves, without swearing and pain, and others will surely begin – happy and healthy.

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