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How to Decide to Divorce
When you are a decent wife and guardian of the family idyll, it is very difficult to decide on a divorce. Even when you realize there's no point in continuing. We are told, they say, harnessed - so pull, but where and why, do not tell. You know, you can forgive a lot, you can understand a lot, but sometimes there are situations where you just have to take things and leave.
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Today's edition. "Site" Talks to you about how to leave your husband and when to stop being forgiving and understanding.
Many men are not too emotional, and it is quite difficult to get some return from them in this regard. They have their own cockroaches, personality traits, just like we do. Something changes over time and you just get used to it.
I have a good friend who has been married for 10 years. The husband was rude, a little rude, and also lazy. He will never wash a plate after himself, let alone clean it or help his wife with the housework. She's used to it, they don't teach him at home, okay? She explained all the misdeeds of her husband by the fact that his childhood was difficult.
Do you know why she fell in love with him? They met in the general company, here he shone: compliments poured, was the soul of the company - witty, cheerful and fervent. Good, never say a bad word to anyone, always on a short foot with the boss, does not argue about any reason.
Except he's not at home. At first he just yelled at his wife when he was in a bad mood, and then he started banging from time to time. And she kept telling herself that he had a difficult childhood, such a character. Then they had a son, so he began to beat him or just ignore him.
After 10 years, she decided to say she was leaving. I didn’t want to leave, I just wanted to scare you. That's how he got so good, caring. The next day he brought a bouquet of carnations, and after dinner he washed the plate himself. And you know, that's when she decided to leave.
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He can be caring, he can wash the plate after himself, but he doesn't want to. Why if it works? That's the kind of man. He seems golden in public: he will never say a rude word, he will always try to resolve everything peacefully and will not stand up for himself, he will not get into a fight. But here at home, when people are weak, his wife and child, he can show his gut.
It will not be better, it will become even tougher every day, because no one will resist him. He will take out his anger and all the accumulated emotions on his wife and child. This man may be normal, but he doesn't want to, doesn't think you're worthy. That's the problem. You have to leave them and not think for a long time.
Deciding to divorce is difficult, it is not the easiest decision in life, but there are cases when it is simply necessary. You will never be happy with such a person. And even if he promises you he'll change, he'll get better, he's unlikely to keep his promise. Let it be a good month, but then everything will be the same.
DepositPhotos Every woman deserves to be treated well. So if you've read everything and you recognize your husband in these lines, think about it, maybe it's time to leave. There will be someone who will appreciate you, who will take care and protect you, and will never allow you to yell at you, and even more so, raise your hand at you. Take care of yourself and be happy!
Divorce is always difficult, even if necessary. Recently, we talked about how to make life easier in a divorce according to the method of the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky.
But divorce is not always the best solution, it is not always necessary. We wrote earlier about how to save a marriage after many years together.
Do you think you should get divorced in this situation? Tell us in the comments what you think about this!
DepositPhotos
Today's edition. "Site" Talks to you about how to leave your husband and when to stop being forgiving and understanding.
Many men are not too emotional, and it is quite difficult to get some return from them in this regard. They have their own cockroaches, personality traits, just like we do. Something changes over time and you just get used to it.
I have a good friend who has been married for 10 years. The husband was rude, a little rude, and also lazy. He will never wash a plate after himself, let alone clean it or help his wife with the housework. She's used to it, they don't teach him at home, okay? She explained all the misdeeds of her husband by the fact that his childhood was difficult.
Do you know why she fell in love with him? They met in the general company, here he shone: compliments poured, was the soul of the company - witty, cheerful and fervent. Good, never say a bad word to anyone, always on a short foot with the boss, does not argue about any reason.
Except he's not at home. At first he just yelled at his wife when he was in a bad mood, and then he started banging from time to time. And she kept telling herself that he had a difficult childhood, such a character. Then they had a son, so he began to beat him or just ignore him.
After 10 years, she decided to say she was leaving. I didn’t want to leave, I just wanted to scare you. That's how he got so good, caring. The next day he brought a bouquet of carnations, and after dinner he washed the plate himself. And you know, that's when she decided to leave.
DepositPhotos
He can be caring, he can wash the plate after himself, but he doesn't want to. Why if it works? That's the kind of man. He seems golden in public: he will never say a rude word, he will always try to resolve everything peacefully and will not stand up for himself, he will not get into a fight. But here at home, when people are weak, his wife and child, he can show his gut.
It will not be better, it will become even tougher every day, because no one will resist him. He will take out his anger and all the accumulated emotions on his wife and child. This man may be normal, but he doesn't want to, doesn't think you're worthy. That's the problem. You have to leave them and not think for a long time.
Deciding to divorce is difficult, it is not the easiest decision in life, but there are cases when it is simply necessary. You will never be happy with such a person. And even if he promises you he'll change, he'll get better, he's unlikely to keep his promise. Let it be a good month, but then everything will be the same.
DepositPhotos Every woman deserves to be treated well. So if you've read everything and you recognize your husband in these lines, think about it, maybe it's time to leave. There will be someone who will appreciate you, who will take care and protect you, and will never allow you to yell at you, and even more so, raise your hand at you. Take care of yourself and be happy!
Divorce is always difficult, even if necessary. Recently, we talked about how to make life easier in a divorce according to the method of the famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky.
But divorce is not always the best solution, it is not always necessary. We wrote earlier about how to save a marriage after many years together.
Do you think you should get divorced in this situation? Tell us in the comments what you think about this!
