What Women Think After Breaking Up

Reasons for divorce They can be very different. Some women gain freedom from overly tedious or unhealthy relationships. But others experience this stage of life as a hard test.

Psychologists working with divorced women have found a common trait: regret. What do women regret after a difficult breakup?



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Years after the divorce, it becomes clear what went wrong and how it was wiser to get out of difficult situations. Over time, wisdom puts everything in place. But sometimes the experience of other people’s failures helps to avoid similar mistakes in your marriage and solve problems in your current relationship.

What divorced women regret

1. They didn’t understand themselves before getting married.
   Usually such thoughts are visited by those women who have been married for a short time. Before marriage, they doubted their choice.
   
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2. I didn't have the courage to leave earlier.
   Sometimes. toxicity It lasts for years, and the woman hopes that her chosen one will change for the better. Experience shows that such expectations do not lead to anything good.
   
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3. They didn’t realize they were more than someone else’s wife.
   These women considered their husband’s life more important than their own. Instead of building a career and pursuing their hobbies, they completely dissolved into relationships. Women lost their independence, devoting themselves to the functions of the “ideal wife”.
   
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4. They couldn't stand up for themselves.
   These women remembered their aspirations and dreams, but the constant concessions during quarrels led to problems. They lacked the courage to defend their rights and dignity. In marriage, they cared for the needs of their husband and hid their experiences.
   
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5. They did not learn to understand their man.
   Everyone imagines a love relationship differently. Many divorcee regret that they were fixated on themselves and did not pay attention to the desires of their partner.
   
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6. Avoiding responsibility
   Young and immature girls in marriage do not realize that you can not shift the responsibility for your happiness to others. Family is not a matter of power and submission. A family is a team where everyone should make an equal effort.
   
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7. They didn’t ask for help from their husband when they needed it.
   Women after separation My husband and I regret that they were silent and dragged everything on themselves when it was worth seeking help from their spouse. Young mothers often submit to the pressure of stereotypes and expectations of society: you need to be an ideal hostess, a good mother, while inspiring her husband, trying to be desirable and attractive. Exorbitant demands caused stress and resentment on her husband, who did not suspect anything. It was worth devoting it to your experiences, and it would give a chance to save family life from collapse.
   
   
   
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Instead of relief, women suddenly fall into despair after breaking up with their husband. Pain after breakup A common occurrence in those who realize a lack of courage and responsibility, independence and determination to end problematic relationships.

Divorce is not always the only way out. We wrote about the golden rules of preserving a happy marriage. Always ask yourself what the outcome will be. When the storm subsides, it is better to keep your ship of happy family life in the harbour rather than sad wreckage.

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