Why You Should Not Take Your Husband's Name

There are many traditions and traditions that accompany marriage. One of them is to take surname. It's been done for generations. Even from an esoteric point of view, in this way a woman recognizes her man and makes him energetically stronger. However, in recent years, more and more new wives leave their maiden name and even give it to their children by mutual consent.



DepositPhotos

Editorial "Site" I decided to find out what the disadvantages are in taking the name of my husband. There are 3 main reasons why modern They are in no hurry to change their maiden name.



DepositPhotos

Change your name after marriage

1. A relic of patriarchy
   This is an old sexist tradition that no longer makes sense in a feminized society. It turns out that a man is recognized in advance as a leader in the family, while for a healthy modern relationship, roles should be equally distributed. For this reason, many women do not change their name.
   
   DepositPhotos
   
   
2. Loss of connection to roots
   Everyone has a family tree. When a girl takes her fiancé’s surname, she ceases to be a part of her family tree. In addition, there are names that represent a certain kind, which can be prestigious. Maiden name can be very rare or beautiful, so girls decide to keep it.
   
   DepositPhotos
   
   
3. Handling documents
   The most common reason why brides do not take the names of suitors is ordinary laziness. Many women are repulsed by paperwork. After all, changing the passport, passport and rights is time-consuming and requires monetary investment. You also need to change all bank cards and records at work. Of course, a very simple and already common thing comes to mind - divorce. All women after a breakup want to get rid of everything that is associated with their ex-husband, and this is again a fuss with documents. Women just don’t want to complicate their lives.
   
   
   
   
   
   DepositPhotos

However, many women continue to take their husband's surname. Everyone has their own worldview, and to say who is right and who is wrong is stupid. The main thing is to build a happy and strong family, and the seal in the passport, surname and opinion of others mean nothing.

We also offer advice to those who are married.

Tell us in the comments if you need to take your husband’s name. Share this article with your friends on social media!

Photo by depositphotos preview.