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When a dacha can cause discord in the family
Cunning wife was the cause confusinglyOne that recently happened to a family of close relatives of my neighbors. It may seem that they are all adults and such problems should not bother them. But still. What happened? Let's talk together.
Neighbor Aunt Vera shared such an unflattering story. As soon as their daughter-in-law Irochka appeared in their family, life went awry. And let Irochka is the wife of Aunt Vera’s nephew, but the confused behavior of the woman was not to everyone’s taste. According to the inconsolable neighbor, the situation is as follows.
Ira and Andrei lived quite peacefully, without disturbing anyone. Only the mother of Andrew and his aunt, seemed a young woman white-handed. Irinka could sleep longer, spend money on fashionable outfits, manicure, pedicure, eyelashes. But, for example, home pickles and twists did not want to do. “Why,” said Irinka, “is everything in the store now.” And as mother-in-law and aunt did not argue with her, and to convince the daughter-in-law could not.
Relatively recently, another grandmother Andrei left the world, bequeathing her dear grandson. one-bedroom. Andrey consulted with Irinka, because he wanted to sell the apartment, and with the proceeds to buy a small cottage and land.
Irinka was outraged and offered deposit In order to buy an apartment for their son Igor in the future. Opinions are divided. Ira said that if Andrey still buys a dacha, then she may not expect help from her. The husband agreed and after a while bought such a coveted cottage.
The female side of the family unconditionally supported Andrew. He's a smart man. There will be a cottage, there will be their own vegetables, there will be a place to relax. Andrei himself at first really with great eagerness disappeared in the country, worked in a small plot, planted something, processed, collected. My mother even taught him to do spins and tried to help in the country. It was quiet and peaceful.
But then Andrew became quite difficult to manage on his own. And the man began to reproach his wife for not helping him. “You eat my vegetables from the bed,” he lamented, “you eat canned food.” You can't help yourself, Ira! To which Irinka without remorse replied: "Eat and I will eat." I was the only one who warned you that I didn't want to help in the country and I wasn't going to. Think what you want.”
While Aunt Vera lamented the ill-bred Irochka, she did not forget to mention that her mother-in-law also tried to straighten Irinka’s brains. I called my daughter-in-law and told her what it was. misbehavior. According to the mother-in-law, Ira is obliged to help her husband.
But the cunning wife didn't give up. She told her mother-in-law about her conversation with her husband. Irinka directly stated to Andrei that she would not work in the country. “But you eat our preservation, Ira, but you do not want to help,” her mother-in-law tried to reach her. To which Irinka without conscience replied that Andrey carries this conservation on a common car, in which she also invests money. So every woman remained with her opinion.
Who is right in this situation, and who is to blame – to judge not us. Aunt Vera and her sister continue to think and wonder what to do with negligent Irinka. Andrey grinding his teeth continues to work in the country, and Irinka still does not want to help her husband. Who knows who will take it anyway? What can you say, dear subscriber, about this? Is Irina right?
Neighbor Aunt Vera shared such an unflattering story. As soon as their daughter-in-law Irochka appeared in their family, life went awry. And let Irochka is the wife of Aunt Vera’s nephew, but the confused behavior of the woman was not to everyone’s taste. According to the inconsolable neighbor, the situation is as follows.
Ira and Andrei lived quite peacefully, without disturbing anyone. Only the mother of Andrew and his aunt, seemed a young woman white-handed. Irinka could sleep longer, spend money on fashionable outfits, manicure, pedicure, eyelashes. But, for example, home pickles and twists did not want to do. “Why,” said Irinka, “is everything in the store now.” And as mother-in-law and aunt did not argue with her, and to convince the daughter-in-law could not.
Relatively recently, another grandmother Andrei left the world, bequeathing her dear grandson. one-bedroom. Andrey consulted with Irinka, because he wanted to sell the apartment, and with the proceeds to buy a small cottage and land.
Irinka was outraged and offered deposit In order to buy an apartment for their son Igor in the future. Opinions are divided. Ira said that if Andrey still buys a dacha, then she may not expect help from her. The husband agreed and after a while bought such a coveted cottage.
The female side of the family unconditionally supported Andrew. He's a smart man. There will be a cottage, there will be their own vegetables, there will be a place to relax. Andrei himself at first really with great eagerness disappeared in the country, worked in a small plot, planted something, processed, collected. My mother even taught him to do spins and tried to help in the country. It was quiet and peaceful.
But then Andrew became quite difficult to manage on his own. And the man began to reproach his wife for not helping him. “You eat my vegetables from the bed,” he lamented, “you eat canned food.” You can't help yourself, Ira! To which Irinka without remorse replied: "Eat and I will eat." I was the only one who warned you that I didn't want to help in the country and I wasn't going to. Think what you want.”
While Aunt Vera lamented the ill-bred Irochka, she did not forget to mention that her mother-in-law also tried to straighten Irinka’s brains. I called my daughter-in-law and told her what it was. misbehavior. According to the mother-in-law, Ira is obliged to help her husband.
But the cunning wife didn't give up. She told her mother-in-law about her conversation with her husband. Irinka directly stated to Andrei that she would not work in the country. “But you eat our preservation, Ira, but you do not want to help,” her mother-in-law tried to reach her. To which Irinka without conscience replied that Andrey carries this conservation on a common car, in which she also invests money. So every woman remained with her opinion.
Who is right in this situation, and who is to blame – to judge not us. Aunt Vera and her sister continue to think and wonder what to do with negligent Irinka. Andrey grinding his teeth continues to work in the country, and Irinka still does not want to help her husband. Who knows who will take it anyway? What can you say, dear subscriber, about this? Is Irina right?
I do not take more irons into my hands, I learned to iron without an iron according to the method of Olga Pappsueva.
The son of a mother’s friend sold an apartment and bought a house in the village, his mother puts it as an example