What not to put on public display on social media

Social media communication has become the norm. The development of the Internet has made it possible to keep in touch with anyone, and for this a person does not need to go out, you do not even need to leave your comfortable chair. But you get used to the good stuff. And many people have developed a real addiction to social media.

Surely everyone on the list of virtual friends there are many people who seem to be always online. And these people are constantly posting something: photos, videos, quotes of great people, funny pictures ... Sometimes they just share their thoughts. Everyone. Is that really worth doing?



The further the modern world develops, the more it is customary to flaunt everything. I hate people who put every step of the way on social media. She's sitting in a cafe, and she's out with her new boyfriend, and she's already had a fight. But someone gave her flowers...’ – Andrey indignant.



“It is very strange that this is happening. Let’s say a guy and a girl fell in love with each other. That's beautiful. But why are they hanging out with this relationship on the Internet? This is a very personal matter that should not be put on display. But no, they brag about each other, as if showing the goods face. Appreciate my new half. Make likes.

Perhaps in my early thirties I am too old and don’t understand something? I also had love in my younger years, but even with close friends I did not discuss my relationship. And here young people, without thinking or doubting, flaunt their feelings in front of hundreds and thousands of unfamiliar users.



It's making me uncomfortable. Sometimes it seems that some things are done solely for the sake of bright photos, then put on Facebook or Instagram. For example, I open the tape and among the many posts I see some sad girl sitting in a cafe with a glass of a weak drink. Sit and sit. Why would I look at this? He also writes something clever. Why? For who?

It's especially sweet when there are a bunch of elementary errors in her sentences. What am I going to read out? If even through the sunglasses I can see the emptiness in her eyes. Just came to the cafe to make a dozen attempts to take a good photo and post this post?



Of course, I can understand the feelings of a man who just parachuted for the first time. He is overwhelmed with emotion and wants to share it with his friends and followers. That's great. Or if you climbed to the top of a mountain. If you’ve been to a favorite concert...

But to lay out everything in a row to create the illusion of a rich life is somehow completely sad and ridiculous. It seems that a person deceives others and himself. It’s like looking at the pages of a celebrity and trying to copy it for yourself.



My daughter and I recently went to the beach. The heat of the day is hellish, so we go to swim in the early morning, fortunately we live nearby. When the sun rises, we rush home. And we can see how many people are on the beach at this time. With little kids. And now the child is sitting with a red back, and the mother takes pictures from one angle, then from another. Why is that? You do not regret yourself, even if you pity the child!

Maybe my problem is simple greed? I do not want to share my personal life with everyone, I do not rush to expose my family. My happiness is only mine, and I have no desire to share it either. Especially with this crazy virtual world, Andrey concluded.



The letter of the man turned out to be very heartfelt, and for his work you can only thank him. He’s probably right, because happiness loves silence. How do you feel about people who share their every move on social media? Judging these people? Or support? Write it in the comments.