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Do you know where your child is now?
Social media is an absolute evil when it comes to children. Did you know that your baby is doing now? How many social media accounts?
Recently, all ran to look for the daughter of Serdyukov. Even before the police received an official statement about the disappearance of minors. Thank God, nothing happened, and the girl just left with his girlfriend, whom he met in social networks, and even sent SMS to parents so that her phone pinged.
But how many children go every day and even now do not know where and with whom? Someone, whose name is nick, and person – to-time only avatar?
In all that happened to the child, blame the parents. It is an axiom.
What our children and especially teenagers spend on social networks more and more time at the same time a cause for concern and distress. After all the trouble begins usually small.
For example, applications for games with "Furby" interactive toy for little ones. Or apps for girls a little older, are invited to join the group club of the cartoon "My little pony" on social networks. And so on. For each age group marketers are chosen tempting the Internet traps.
A handy tool for parents that allows you to take the child for a long time, the passage of time could become a "sword of Damocles". Formed from early childhood the habit of spending time on the Internet will likely lead to discord in the relations within the family become a hindrance to the social adaptation of the child, not to mention the formation of this dependence on computer, including from social networks.
Parents, first and foremost trying to ensure his offspring material wealth, forget sometimes that in the pursuit of money, they lose the most important thing – the child, his trust, the time you would spend together. In those years, when the child is your child, not so much. The reason to think. How many years will pass until he will learn to do without you? 10, max, 12. It's very short.
In many modern families, the time that parents devote to the child, is rapidly declining. And this is monstrous pedagogical error. And a three-year, thirteen-year-old in need of care and attention from adults. After all, if authority and Advisor failed to become a dad, the teenager will have to find this authority elsewhere. If the human warmth has given the mother – with the big share of probability its likeness will be found in social networks.
Moving away from each other, adults and children become strangers. That's trouble near, parents often realize only when to change something it is too late.
Psychologists and psychiatrists in my clinic working with such cases every day, because modern teenagers, left to themselves, social networks are looking for friendship, understanding, which is not in real life. Infantile, aggressive and at the same time, helpless and vulnerable, they easily fall into the trap of network, out of which back "in the life" is often difficult.
Uncontrolled parent teenager communication in social networks is fraught with serious consequences. After the "care network" becomes the inevitable loss of sense of reality. Interacting online only, our children will never be able to acquire the skills of normal interpersonal interaction and communication, it will be difficult to adapt in the "real" social environment. Quiet and shy will never be the "soul of the company." Dependent praise – never satisfied.
A balanced personality only makes the experience of living in society. And this is also an axiom.
Fall for an Internet Scam and lose money – the lesser of two evils, which may happen in the network with your child. It is through social networks "recruit" today the weak and defenseless extremist organization. Pedophiles, sites of suicidal orientation, etc. – it's all reason for a separate discussion.
To ensure the safety of your child, not to harm his mental and physical health, the adult must be aware of which networks or groups communicates his child, with whom and on what topics. In short, a Council to be friends with your child is relevant at all times, whether we are talking about a domestic company or group in a social network. In the second case, the recommendation is even more relevant, since this side of "life" may remain for you is truly a mystery.
Also interesting: Svetlana roiz: Reactions of children to parents publication about them in social networks
How to make a child with a book
Social media is an absolute evil when it comes to children. Let's face it and try to protect them, while children are young, to warn, to control and to watch out when they grow up.published
Author: Alexander Kaminski
Source: haminsky.livejournal.com/13958.html?media
Recently, all ran to look for the daughter of Serdyukov. Even before the police received an official statement about the disappearance of minors. Thank God, nothing happened, and the girl just left with his girlfriend, whom he met in social networks, and even sent SMS to parents so that her phone pinged.
But how many children go every day and even now do not know where and with whom? Someone, whose name is nick, and person – to-time only avatar?
In all that happened to the child, blame the parents. It is an axiom.
What our children and especially teenagers spend on social networks more and more time at the same time a cause for concern and distress. After all the trouble begins usually small.
For example, applications for games with "Furby" interactive toy for little ones. Or apps for girls a little older, are invited to join the group club of the cartoon "My little pony" on social networks. And so on. For each age group marketers are chosen tempting the Internet traps.
A handy tool for parents that allows you to take the child for a long time, the passage of time could become a "sword of Damocles". Formed from early childhood the habit of spending time on the Internet will likely lead to discord in the relations within the family become a hindrance to the social adaptation of the child, not to mention the formation of this dependence on computer, including from social networks.
Parents, first and foremost trying to ensure his offspring material wealth, forget sometimes that in the pursuit of money, they lose the most important thing – the child, his trust, the time you would spend together. In those years, when the child is your child, not so much. The reason to think. How many years will pass until he will learn to do without you? 10, max, 12. It's very short.
In many modern families, the time that parents devote to the child, is rapidly declining. And this is monstrous pedagogical error. And a three-year, thirteen-year-old in need of care and attention from adults. After all, if authority and Advisor failed to become a dad, the teenager will have to find this authority elsewhere. If the human warmth has given the mother – with the big share of probability its likeness will be found in social networks.
Moving away from each other, adults and children become strangers. That's trouble near, parents often realize only when to change something it is too late.
Psychologists and psychiatrists in my clinic working with such cases every day, because modern teenagers, left to themselves, social networks are looking for friendship, understanding, which is not in real life. Infantile, aggressive and at the same time, helpless and vulnerable, they easily fall into the trap of network, out of which back "in the life" is often difficult.
Uncontrolled parent teenager communication in social networks is fraught with serious consequences. After the "care network" becomes the inevitable loss of sense of reality. Interacting online only, our children will never be able to acquire the skills of normal interpersonal interaction and communication, it will be difficult to adapt in the "real" social environment. Quiet and shy will never be the "soul of the company." Dependent praise – never satisfied.
A balanced personality only makes the experience of living in society. And this is also an axiom.
Fall for an Internet Scam and lose money – the lesser of two evils, which may happen in the network with your child. It is through social networks "recruit" today the weak and defenseless extremist organization. Pedophiles, sites of suicidal orientation, etc. – it's all reason for a separate discussion.
To ensure the safety of your child, not to harm his mental and physical health, the adult must be aware of which networks or groups communicates his child, with whom and on what topics. In short, a Council to be friends with your child is relevant at all times, whether we are talking about a domestic company or group in a social network. In the second case, the recommendation is even more relevant, since this side of "life" may remain for you is truly a mystery.
Also interesting: Svetlana roiz: Reactions of children to parents publication about them in social networks
How to make a child with a book
Social media is an absolute evil when it comes to children. Let's face it and try to protect them, while children are young, to warn, to control and to watch out when they grow up.published
Author: Alexander Kaminski
Source: haminsky.livejournal.com/13958.html?media
