Stupid my head with a guest marriage, telling me it was the only option after 30.

The relationship of an adult woman is significantly different from the experience of young ladies who still know little about life. Only after a few stormy romances, and perhaps even marriages, comes a valuable experience. Some people help. build new relationshipsIt will last a long time and have a higher quality. But some even decide to abandon permanent cohabitation with someone.

Sometimes a large number of unsuccessful attempts can lead to disappointment in love in general. It is difficult to remain optimistic when there are already three or even all four partners who did not fit and brought only pain and sadness. In addition, it is worth considering that all relationships that begin in adulthood, there are several serious obstacles.



Like our habits. Relationships often imply cohabitation, and getting used to it is quite difficult. Especially for people who value distance and value being alone. But there are still a lot of everyday moments that you will need to get used to.



Many people are so used to the peculiarities of a lonely life that living together seems like a branch of hell. For example, when you live alone, it is not necessary to cook a lot or cook at all. Some are limited to snacks at work and in cafes. And they're perfectly fine with that. And with the appearance of a cohabitant, you need to change your usual way of life. Not everyone likes it.



Another thing. guest-marriage. It is not necessary for spouses to live together. It is very convenient when people have some habits that they cannot or do not want to change. And sometimes it's not just them. Sometimes distance can be a serious circumstance if the partners, for example, live in different cities.



Someone may be outraged that what kind of love is it if people do not want to live together? However, the adult world assumes many circumstances that were not dreamed of by those who met their soul mate as a teenager. For example, it could be A job that does not allow you to move to another city.



It is also worth considering that we are all different. Someone used to be in the company of a lot of relatives, especially if his childhood passed surrounded by a happy large family. For such a person, someone’s permanent society will be quite comfortable. The other cannot live without being alone for at least a couple of hours a day.



This does not mean that a person likes to be single and not have a couple. Just maritalism He doesn't fit. And yet such a person also needs love and intimacy. You just need to find a partner who will also like this form of relationship.

Just because you don’t like the standard format of a relationship doesn’t mean it’s over and you’ll never be happy. It just means that You'll have to be more careful and selective.. The specificity of our perception of the relationship and the world does not mean that only we perceive it. There are many others who are willing to share the same view and support us. You just have to be patient!