I was walking home from the store when a stranger caught up with me and told the truth about my husband.

Family psychologists explain that two-family It starts small with a fleeting connection on the side. And then things get more complicated, more serious, and a full-fledged second family emerges.

And then try to deal with your feelings to make the final choice. It's complicated. Therefore, many representatives of the stronger sex do not dare to make this very choice.

Today's edition. "Site" She will share the story of a woman who, after many years of family life, got to know her husband better. Now I have no idea what the future holds for my family. Until recently, everything was completely normal. No worse than the others.



I have been married to two families for 14 years. I got married because I got pregnant. Although now I recall the beginning of our relationship and strongly doubt that the wedding would have taken place if not for the child. But over time, family life improved. We were different, but were able to find a common language, common points of contact, writes Oksana.



“Three years later I became pregnant for the second time. And when I was on maternity leave, I remember being told that they saw my husband in the company of another woman. Of course, I attacked him with complaints, but he denied everything. I ended up missing that bell. I just believed what he said.

But after the birth of our second child, our relationship changed for the worse. My husband worked a lot, often stayed late in the evenings, frankly did not hurry home. On the one hand, my upbringing and household chores were entirely on me, but at the same time he always earned enough so that we didn’t need anything.”



“I tried not to think about the bad. She took care of children, made sure that they had a rich life, so that they achieved success in their studies. And I must say that my efforts did not go in vain. So I honestly considered myself a good mother and a good wife. And here's the news.

“When I was coming home, a strange woman literally ran up to me. She said she has been living with my husband for 10 years. I was tired of waiting for him to finally leave me. Her child needs a father and his support.”



“At first I thought this lady had got something wrong. But when her words began to reach the depths of my consciousness, I quickly became convinced that it was about my faithful. Meanwhile, she continued that he only loves her, and just feels sorry for me and my children, so he does not leave.”



What to do next: I came home as if in a fog. I didn't even notice my husband coming home from work. I came early this time and didn’t stay long. And then it dawned on me that he wasn't working late, but this woman. I guess I didn’t even go on a business trip.”

“He did not pretend that something was wrong. I didn't know where to start the conversation. This is not just a romance on the side, but a whole family already, with a child. The other one, in my place, would have noticed, suspected, investigated. I haven't noticed anything in years. Wherever I looked...

“Now I don’t even know what to do. Even age is not the one to fight with rivals and find out something. What can I say to my husband? To demand that things be collected and cleaned up? Or go away with the kids? Or make him choose? So many questions, but I don’t know what to do. Can you pretend that nothing is happening? the woman wondered.



Sooner or later, Oksana will have to talk to her husband about what she learned. Who knows how true the words of that little-known woman were. And why that young lady suddenly decided that her child needs a father more than Oksana's sons. And what did she expect when she had an affair with a married and married man?

In any case, Oksana is unlikely to be able to live, pretending that nothing happened and is not happening. Therefore, she will have to make the decision herself. He knows what is best for his family and his children.