The sister came to her grandmother for the anniversary empty-handed, but the grandmother was not angry, and gave her a gift.

That's what templates do to break down sometimes. We are used to the fact that grandmothers and mothers are completely sacrificial and beautiful people. That is true, but there are exceptions. Different us! And grandma One can be very different from the other’s grandmother. We've got a story on that.



Editorial "Site" Still, he is not discouraged and declares with confidence - these are all details, and grandmothers and mothers are in fact always golden. Just the attitude towards them can be different. Come on, everyone has their own perspective. Let's try to figure out what's going on here, and you can draw your own conclusions.

“Perhaps first you need to explain who is who.” My mother became an orphan when she was a child and lost her mother when she was five. She stayed with her grandmother for a while until my grandfather, her father, married another. He later took my mother to his new family, although her grandmother feared that her stepmother would become ill-treated. Thank goodness my father’s wife was a wonderful man.



Soon they had a son, mother's brother. She says that, of course, things happened, but the stepmother was wise and managed to raise the children normally, as if they were both her own. Now this is my grandmother, whom I love very much, I visit her and my grandfather every summer. But not that. My mother eventually grew up and got married. That's how I came to be.

That's all I got. grandma My father, who, like my mother, disliked me. I don't know why, and I don't really want to know. She likes her dad's younger sister's family and her other granddaughter, my cousin. She and I are about the same age, somehow. In general, we have long been accustomed to a cool attitude. And here.



Grandma's character had an anniversary. My husband and I went, how would you miss that? Maybe you would, but you can't, Dad will be offended. We arrived, brought a good cooker as a gift, and the sister came alone and without a gift. Turns out she just got divorced. And let's go, then her grandmother pity her in every way, they say, poor girl.

But it was just foreplay. When everyone sat down at the table, she announced to everyone that she was recording her apartment on her. And then she said to me, clearly speaking to me. Like, if Alena is also a husband like you, why would you be so happy? To say that I am stunned is to say nothing. Honestly, I didn’t even find a way to say how to joke, so as not to look stupid.



It was ours. last to my grandmother. How cut off. That's what happiness is, I think? My father asks me to visit, but I refuse. She called me, I'm not picking up. Why all this if she doesn't love me at all? It's my mother's stepmother, my non-native grandmother. Grandpa's gone, she's alone. She has children, my aunts and uncles, but I don’t remember her ever dividing us.

And there we really get together as a big, close-knit family, even Dad notes that. There is no separation between loved ones or unloved. Here we go. Seems like a stranger. Sadly, I cut my grandmother out of my life. In the end, she will not be alone, because there is a beloved granddaughter.



It is not for us to judge, but we will ask for advice. Do you think your granddaughter should still visit her wayward, but still her own grandmother? Or still not answering the phone and ignoring it. Be sure to write about everything in the comments!



Grandma's character It may not be angelic at all. But in most cases, my grandmother is almost the closest person! Read our article about how an obedient granddaughter carried her grandmother’s pension and always reported a little from her savings. And thank you for staying with us!