I want a serious relationship and get married, put the married ultimatum

Last week I arranged a date with a man. We met on the Internet. When he met, he did not hide that in addition to business, he has a wife and children. But it didn’t scare me away, and our correspondence quickly turned into a date.

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He ordered and paid for a taxi to the restaurant. When I arrived, I was pleasantly surprised: he was really good on his avatar. No more than 40, tall, shouldery, in an expensive jacket.

"I've already ordered everything," he said as we sat down at the table.

And to my unpleasant surprise, most of these expensive dishes were with meat. “I could have asked if I was a vegetarian,” I thought, but said nothing out loud.



She said she wanted a serious relationship, “Will you eat one salad?” he was surprised to see my plate. - Okay, whatever. In general, I suggest regular meetings. You know the character. In return, I will help you with housing, bills and other things.”

I wasn't ready for that.

“Being a mistress is not mine. I want a serious relationship and I want to get married.””

He looked at me in disbelief.

"But I wrote that I was married..."

“That is why I give you 24 hours to choose from. Either me or my wife.



While he was thinking about my words, I added that besides him, I have other fans. Don't think he's the only one who can keep me company. I don't care what his wife, children or dog is. A serious relationship and a wedding is what I want. The role of a lover requires patience and time. I can't waste time with people who aren't willing to make sacrifices for me.



His response was not long in coming. He stated that I was the first girl to speak to him so boldly and brazenly. That previous mistresses willingly accepted his financial assistance. That I should be happy with such offers. After all, I’m not 20 anymore, I don’t have my own home, I don’t have a job, and it’s stupid to ask him to do anything.



In response, I stood up silently and left without saying goodbye. He's not the first or the last. Sadly aware that I was never full, I took the subway. One thing I knew for sure: one day I would meet a man who would do anything for me.



Whatever goals we are guided by, very often we do not see what this can turn out for others. Is it worth going on dates with men for the sake of married status and immediately setting conditions for them? Or is it better to find a person with whom the question of marriage will come gradually?

What do you think? Share your opinion!