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If you can’t find anyone on a dating site, you just don’t want to.
Modern men and women around the world are too busy to meet in the old-fashioned cafe. Although rare, such romantics also occur. The paradox is that people stop meeting on the street, they do not trust the first person they meet. But dating sites are trusted and looking for true love there. Are dating sites suitable for creating a serious relationship? The question is debatable, because among them among adequate single people there are both perverts and fraudsters. Let's figure it out.
In the modern world, there is no time for error. No one wants to spend time getting to know a person and then be disappointed in him and start looking for the one from the beginning. That's why they invented dating sites. Someone is looking for an interesting interlocutor, someone is his other half. Can a correspondence friendship turn into something more? Of course it can. It should be understood that the beautiful photos in the profile and the ideal questionnaire of the applicant for your heart do not always fully correspond to reality.
“I have been divorced for 10 years. I have also visited various websites. In fact, at our age, this is almost the only ghostly opportunity to meet. Because the circle of friends and relatives is already outlined, and finding someone, if it did not happen earlier, is very problematic. I believe that finding a more or less suitable man on a dating site is like looking for a needle in a haystack. I posted a questionnaire to a website 3 days ago. During this time, three people knocked on me to become their mistress. 10 Mahmouds. And when I wrote that I would like to meet a man of Slavic nationality, insults went. And plus a dozen young men who are looking for safe mistresses - that's the whole catch, admits the desperate Natalia.
Before judging everyone and everything, you need to understand what you expect from a new acquaintance. If you want to meet a good young man, you need to honestly describe yourself in a portfolio. Tell us about your hobbies, life goals and interests. Talk directly about why you registered on the site: to communicate or to build a serious relationship.
“I was completely broken in 2010. All the stress, the relationship in the family came to naught, I left my husband. The boss advised to meet someone on the dating site for psychological stability. Of course, there were all sorts of suggestions, but literally 10 days later I met a wonderful guy, in character and life principles, just what you need! Beautiful, smart, also Muscovite, but younger by 11 years! At first, I didn’t believe this happened! But we're still together. Everything happens, sometimes we quarrel, but after a storm there is always great weather in the house, Elvira said.
Of course, often the purpose of dating on the Internet is to go on a date. If you and a person communicate for a week, and he does not come from the initiative to meet live, then it is time to switch to someone else. In general, psychologists advise not to stop communicating with one person. Especially if you don’t like it or your perception doesn’t match. Don’t feel guilty and keep communicating if you don’t want to. This is the beauty of communication by correspondence.
“It all depends on what you want. I set myself the goal of finding a person with certain qualities in Italy, in the Puglia region, in Bari or the surrounding area (this place was important to me). I made a plan for what I needed. And I found it. Or rather, he found me. I live in Italy now. You just don't want to. He who seeks finds. And wait, lucky or unlucky, you can always. So I had to find my man in this place. Finding a husband from Europe is not difficult. You're a pretty woman, but that's catastrophically small. And the thing is that you either do not understand who you need, or do not understand men, says Anastasia.
Finding your own person is a job. You can spend a day and find the love of your life. You can look for a long time. How lucky. We need to prepare ourselves for the search. Realize that if you want to find a diamond, go through a mountain of rock. Sometimes you don’t fit a person, sometimes you don’t. But if you believe in a positive result, then the search process itself becomes a pleasant and fun game. It forces you to keep yourself in good shape, develop yourself, reflect, learn new things (languages, the Internet, makeup, the art of presenting yourself correctly). Do you believe in love from the first letter?
In the modern world, there is no time for error. No one wants to spend time getting to know a person and then be disappointed in him and start looking for the one from the beginning. That's why they invented dating sites. Someone is looking for an interesting interlocutor, someone is his other half. Can a correspondence friendship turn into something more? Of course it can. It should be understood that the beautiful photos in the profile and the ideal questionnaire of the applicant for your heart do not always fully correspond to reality.
“I have been divorced for 10 years. I have also visited various websites. In fact, at our age, this is almost the only ghostly opportunity to meet. Because the circle of friends and relatives is already outlined, and finding someone, if it did not happen earlier, is very problematic. I believe that finding a more or less suitable man on a dating site is like looking for a needle in a haystack. I posted a questionnaire to a website 3 days ago. During this time, three people knocked on me to become their mistress. 10 Mahmouds. And when I wrote that I would like to meet a man of Slavic nationality, insults went. And plus a dozen young men who are looking for safe mistresses - that's the whole catch, admits the desperate Natalia.
Before judging everyone and everything, you need to understand what you expect from a new acquaintance. If you want to meet a good young man, you need to honestly describe yourself in a portfolio. Tell us about your hobbies, life goals and interests. Talk directly about why you registered on the site: to communicate or to build a serious relationship.
“I was completely broken in 2010. All the stress, the relationship in the family came to naught, I left my husband. The boss advised to meet someone on the dating site for psychological stability. Of course, there were all sorts of suggestions, but literally 10 days later I met a wonderful guy, in character and life principles, just what you need! Beautiful, smart, also Muscovite, but younger by 11 years! At first, I didn’t believe this happened! But we're still together. Everything happens, sometimes we quarrel, but after a storm there is always great weather in the house, Elvira said.
Of course, often the purpose of dating on the Internet is to go on a date. If you and a person communicate for a week, and he does not come from the initiative to meet live, then it is time to switch to someone else. In general, psychologists advise not to stop communicating with one person. Especially if you don’t like it or your perception doesn’t match. Don’t feel guilty and keep communicating if you don’t want to. This is the beauty of communication by correspondence.
“It all depends on what you want. I set myself the goal of finding a person with certain qualities in Italy, in the Puglia region, in Bari or the surrounding area (this place was important to me). I made a plan for what I needed. And I found it. Or rather, he found me. I live in Italy now. You just don't want to. He who seeks finds. And wait, lucky or unlucky, you can always. So I had to find my man in this place. Finding a husband from Europe is not difficult. You're a pretty woman, but that's catastrophically small. And the thing is that you either do not understand who you need, or do not understand men, says Anastasia.
Finding your own person is a job. You can spend a day and find the love of your life. You can look for a long time. How lucky. We need to prepare ourselves for the search. Realize that if you want to find a diamond, go through a mountain of rock. Sometimes you don’t fit a person, sometimes you don’t. But if you believe in a positive result, then the search process itself becomes a pleasant and fun game. It forces you to keep yourself in good shape, develop yourself, reflect, learn new things (languages, the Internet, makeup, the art of presenting yourself correctly). Do you believe in love from the first letter?
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