Can a mother love her daughter as much as a grandmother?

You're going to a corporate party, your husband's gone on a business trip, but no one to leave the baby with? What to do in this situation? Of course you can. leaveBut there are some disadvantages to this decision. Why you should not leave children too often in the care of grandmothers, we will tell you a little below.

Some parents are just waiting for the opportunity to fuse their child to grandparents. There is nothing wrong with that, because everyone is happy. Parents are happy to get the long-awaited freedom, and grandparents always want to babysit their babies. Usually, mom and dad send their children to the country or to the village, and therefore such a trip is also useful for children. Fresh air, nature... Why not heaven?



However, there is another category of parents. It turns out that there is a type of people who are not at all enthusiastic about the fact that children spend a long time away from them and their home. Moreover, such parents always have the time and opportunity to stay with them.



You may have thought that this second category rich peoplePeople who are not working and are always at home. But that's not exactly true. They are people who can and can see opportunities everywhere. They are looking for a job that allows you to do tasks remotely, take a child all walks and journeysBut they're having a great time.



Such people sincerely rejoice in all the moments next to the child and do not want to miss any. They were planning to have children and now Enjoying time with your baby.



There are other reasons not to leave your child with your grandmother. For example, discipline. It is important that the child has one authority – the parents. When the mother says no and the grandmother says yes, it is difficult for the child to form the right value system. His behavior becomes capricious and very unpredictable.



Grandmothers sometimes love grandchildren much more than their own children. They understand How much did you miss? When your daughter or son grows up. At the time, they were busy making money and making connections. The children lacked resources. So they want to make up for it on their grandchildren. They can be understood. Here's what to do with parents spoiled to the impossible result of this compensation?



I sincerely believe that the right and those parents who want a little rest from the screaming children, and those who want to spend every moment with their children. The main thing is to know everything and look at things soberly. It’s great to have the opportunity to have a child, but at the same time to live for pleasure. Remember that your child is a small person who always needs your attention, love and care.