Ten years saved up for an apartment in a new building, and finally my beloved asked me to marry.

The fact that her man is a self-serving person, Lyudmila learned after three years of relationship. It seemed that Oleg was the perfect man for her, but it was not about marriage. Luda convulsively saved money for his own housing all his adult life, and Oleg spent his salary on worldly pleasures.

They were not husband and wife, and therefore there was no general budget - nothing strange, it's everyone's business. As soon as Lyudmila approached her dream to get her own house, Oleg started talking about the wedding. It's a strange coincidence, isn't it?



I have long dreamed of my apartment. Sometimes you have to work two jobs to save money. Of course, I saved on everything. Colleagues at work considered me stingy: I used to buy clothes at a discount and eat food that I cooked at home, not the one sold in the dining room.



I managed to fulfill my dream after 10 years of hard life in saving mode. And then life started getting better. At work, I was promoted, my relationship with my beloved became warmer. We lived apart, but with the purchase of an apartment, Oleg began to hint that it was time to start living together. Before that, Oleg lived with his parents, and I rented an apartment.



When I settled in my apartment, I called Oleg to live with me. A month later, Oleg proposed to me. I truly believed that this man loved me and wanted to marry me. We started preparing for the wedding and I was happy. And then I saw that my fiancé began to behave strangely, he became silent and thoughtful, constantly in a bad mood.



When I asked what happened, Oleg said that he lived on a bird’s license, that in my apartment he did not feel like the owner of the apartment. I said he's my favorite person and whose place it is doesn't matter. I was so wrong.



Oleg began to insist that I register him in my apartment, so that he was a full-fledged owner in the house, and not just a person with a stamp in his passport. According to him, only in this way he can be a full-fledged member of the family, a man. Then he freaked out and said that if I didn’t sign half the apartment for him, there would be no wedding.



Since then, I have been wary of any kind of relationship. I'm doing pretty well myself. I am a successful woman with my own home. Only now I feel free and happy. I am not thinking of a serious relationship now.”



Lyudmila was very lucky that she did not become a victim of fraud. Obviously, her chosen one was not going to swear allegiance for the rest of her life. In order to be confident in each other, you need to be on the same level of the social ladder or conclude a marriage contract. What do you think?