Burned with shame for my husband in front of colleagues, deceived everyone that he is the director of the STO

What to do if you are ashamed of your loved one, and why is it even possible? Today we invite you to look at such a non-trivial topic from different angles. Food for thought will be an interesting story.



I got married very early, Bogdan and I just graduated from school. They fell in love with each other, thought nothing. My parents helped with the wedding. We started living together and soon I got pregnant. Of course, I did not go to university, and Bogdan had to quickly look for work to provide for his family.



I must say that he did not want to get a higher education. I have a handsome handsome man to whom intellectual work was alien. His practical skills helped him get a job. In parallel, Bogdan took on any part-time jobs, brought everything he earned home to his family.

After 3 years, my parents offered me to go to university, and they will help with the baby. To be honest, I was very happy because I sincerely wanted to get an education and find a prestigious job. Bogdan supported me, moreover, he began to work even more to pay for my education.



I did not let my relatives down: I graduated from an economic university with a red diploma and found a good option for starting a career. Very soon things went up and I was promoted. And then again and again, there is a lot to grow in this profession. I started making more money than Bogdan, and he was still fixing cars at the station.

At some point, I realized that I was ashamed of my husband, because he never aspired to anything. I talked to him about it many times, like, look at me, at my earnings. He just smiled and said he was proud of me. But he is completely satisfied with his life, he has enough for everything, me and my daughter are next to him. What else do you need?

At work, I always tried to avoid the topic of family. But inquisitive colleagues are still trying to find out what I live outside the office. So I decided to say that my Bogdan works as a director of the STO. Of course, everything went well, and I calmed down.



But just a few weeks after that, something terrible happened. My colleagues and I were driving to a business meeting. On the way, they broke the wheel and drove to the nearest station to fix it. I think you guessed what happened next. By a strange coincidence, this was the station where my husband worked.

I got out of the car, but I didn't have time to run outside. Bogdan noticed me and came to kiss me. He was very happy with me, and I wanted to fall through the ground. We were noticed by my colleagues and looked rather obliquely.



Through my teeth, I told Bogdan to get away from me, saying that we will talk at home. The husband did not insist and left. I thought it was over, but there was a fire inside me. The shame never left me until the end of the day.

In the evening I decided to talk to my husband again. I tried to explain to him that I was no longer a little girl flitting in the clouds of love. I aspire to a better life and I want to have a man with the same purpose.



My fiery speech did not impress Bogdan. He kept saying that he loved me and was proud of me, but he liked working for the service station and didn’t want to change jobs. What if I am ashamed to live with this person? Is it possible to reach out to him after everything that has happened?

I am convinced that loving people Respect each other’s positions and priorities. If there is a place for shame in a relationship, it can hardly be called healthy and adequate. If you feel that your chosen one does not motivate you, but, on the contrary, oppresses, you do not need to try to re-educate him. Everyone has their own path, and that’s okay.



The husband of the main character has created his comfort zone, which is perfect for him. Why should he change his life at the behest of his wife? Since when did the auto mechanic become a disgrace? Despite all the claims of his wife, Bogdan does not give up and continues to do his favorite and useful thing. I'm sure that woman will bite her elbows when she loses him.

I wonder what you'd say. Do you think the heroes of the story will be able to mend relationships or they are waiting for a divorce? Boldly share your thoughts in the comments!