Why marriage is difficult for the first 25 years

The relationship between adult women and men is full of complexity and confusion. It is one of those aspects of life that directly affects our lives. mood, desire to work and general mental state. Daria Dontsova knows exactly how to facilitate the perception of this sphere of life with the help of light humor and life-affirming prose.

At one time, my bookshelf was full of detectives of this woman. The writer literally saved me during a difficult time. Her light vision of the world helped me overcome my own difficulties.

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Today I would like to share with our readers simple truths that she once caught in the work of Dontsova. Many consider her books something frivolous and not worth the attention of a decent book lover. I don't agree with that. There are different kinds of literature. Sometimes we need something like that for mental rest.

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Easy reading, full of household wisdom and important observations. Very often, on the example of her characters, Daria shows us that life is not as simple as it could be. And it's not as difficult as it seems at first glance.

First of all, I want to remind everyone that Romantic relationships are not the center of life.. Therefore, you should not ruin your whole world if something goes wrong in romantic terms. Daria's books show this perfectly. The main characters are always faced with some twists and turns in their personal lives. Nevertheless, they continue their investigations.



Shifting focus from relationships to something else helps in real life. When your personal life collapses, try. focus on something else. For example, at work or a hobby. Talk to your friends more or start tidying up your body. It'll be helpful anyway.



Second, Dontsova’s books taught me not to be angry with those who have offended. We come across a lot of different people. All of them are. at different levels of emotional and mental development. Most people don’t know how much pain they bring to others. It's pointless to be mad at them. Your anger will not correct them, it will only destroy you.



Making mistakes is normal. If you haven’t done them for a long time, then most likely you’re just standing still and not moving anywhere. You don't have to. bully For every little thing. Learn to learn fast. I made a mistake, learned my lesson, and moved on.



Most of all, people are condemned by those who themselves want to do the condemned. Almost everyone knows this truth, but for some reason they often forget it. Criticism should be accepted only when it correctly expressed. Chaotic dissatisfied screams are the prerogative of unhappy and dissatisfied people.



Do not expect understanding and love from your partner if you do not know how to express it correctly. We learn from each other. Timely and accurate expression of emotions plays a huge role. Learn to express yourself. love, affection, tenderness, as well as discontent. Express it without aggression, but understandable to your partner.

All these complex things Daria Dontsova tries to describe as simply as possible, through stories about his characters. Perhaps you also love her work and have noticed some wisdom in it that you want to share with us?