Why civil marriage works against women

Registered marriage It's becoming less popular over the years. Unwilling to accept responsibility and be bound by obligations, young people often decide to simply live under one roof and be content with ordinary cohabitation.

And today's edition. "Site" I want to know how this approach works in the church. Long-term marriage and a strong family have always been the foundation of society. And can there be such a basis for couples who do not dare to even register a marriage?



Marriage between a man and a woman: I don’t understand civil marriage. And it seems to me that this is a diversion primarily in relation to girls. The guy doesn't promise the girl anything, she doesn't promise anything back. Nobody owes anyone anything. But what next? – indignant Archpriest Andrei Tkachev.



“In the end, we lived a year, two lived. All the cherries from the cake ate, the cream licked, bored each other. Then he will say to her, “Goodbye, then.” I found another, younger.

“Even at the age of 20, it is difficult for her to survive this separation. No matter what anyone says, and the girl still dreams in the secret of her heart and about the veil, and about children, and about the family hearth, and about a faithful husband, and about love, and about care. Everyone wants that. Of course, they fool around, they adapt to the laws of this world, but then they are punished.”



A civil marriage and a man, What is a man? How many women can he change in his lifetime? Hundreds! Until the age of 50, he can find young girls. And the woman? How long will she be able to find cohabitants in such a civil godless cohabitation? asks Andrei Tkachev.



“She ages faster. She spends all her beauty and youth on the first boyfriend, then on the second, on the third. They all packed their bags and left. She's over 30. What do we do now? ?

“This is a disaster. Now she'll have a grudge against men. Then she wants to give birth to herself. From whom? At least from a donor. There is even such a business today. But what happened? Heartache and a spoiled life”.



“Therefore, I am sure that marriage It's against women. So she could give herself up to some rascal. First one, then the second... And then she despaired. In such a cohabitation, I do not see a single plus for a woman. Not one. Just meanness of a global scale, aimed at making a woman unhappy, said Andrey Tkachev.



It is difficult to argue with Andrey Tkachev. And although many couples, living under the same roof, sign and have children, but sometimes it happens as the priest describes.

Perhaps young people should often remember their grandparents, who began to live under the same roof only after the wedding? After all, these marriages were for life, not for a couple of years. Maybe with today’s freedom in our personal lives, we’ve really turned the wrong way.