What helped Shirvindt 63 years of marriage did not lose interest in his wife

Happy and marriage Something that anyone dreams of. But not everyone manages to realize this dream. But those rare couples who managed to live together for decades, cause real admiration and serve as an example for others.

It is believed that for an actor a strong marriage is a rather alien phenomenon. It is not easy for creative people to live with the same person for many years. So even having children and having lots of common interests often can't keep people together. But there are exceptions.

Today's edition. "Site" Alexander Shirvindt and Natalia Belousova, who have been married since 1957. 63 years together! This is fantastic for our changing world. It is not surprising that journalists often ask Alexander and Natalia about the secret of their long marriage.



There is an opinion that an unhappy man in his personal life will not be able to achieve serious success in any field. Like, if there is no loving soulmate next to you who inspires, supports, and shares your interests, then nothing will happen. And indeed, behind every successful person there is always such a muse.

What is the recipe for a successful and lasting marriage? Every couple has their own secrets and their own path. And yet, it is worth learning the opinion of those who managed to achieve a fantastic result. Surely these people have something to learn.



When Alexander Shirvindt was recently asked about the secret of his marriage, he answered in many ways unexpectedly. Although this position of the man seems quite logical and justified. And it is even surprising that not every family is considered in this vein.

“I am an artist and my wife is an architect. We have different professional areas, different friends and acquaintances. Each of us has our own projects and achievements. We don't interfere in each other's affairs. In fact, we don’t even know what each of us is doing. She's got projects. I have theater and premieres, the artist explained.

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Alexander Anatolyevich is sure that dissolving in his soul mate is a huge mistake of any person. It doesn’t matter if it’s men or women. After all, such attachment to a partner is wrecking, not helping. The actor is sure that he would easily go mad if his wife dissolved in him.

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Why give each other more freedom to give each other more oxygen? Let everyone develop at their own pace, then it will be interesting to live together. Then it will be good together and the years will fly unnoticed. You can not live nose to nose all day long, the actor expressed his point of view.

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And this is a very interesting advice that many women who are ready to fully devote their lives to their beloved man should think about. Why does he really need your life?

He needs a woman who lives an interesting life, who deserves the respect and admiration of others. Next to such a self-sufficient young lady, you want to be much more than with one who constantly looks into the mouth.



No wonder there is an opinion that decent and versatile people who are engaged in business do not spend themselves on jealousy, clarifying relationships and other amorous troubles. There's just no time or need.

But empty people are always ready to exaggerate their problems and troubles, they always feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable and unhappy. A passionate and busy person does not complain about this. And without sobbing, lamentations and wringing of hands gets worthy happiness.



Therefore long-marriageAccording to Alexander Shirvindt, it is quite simple. And this secret is to give each other more freedom, not to strangle the partner with attention and “love”. Do not exaggerate small things and do not complicate the life of a loved one. You will want to be there for many years.