I met a wise notary who talked me out of giving my son a house.

Today's edition. "Site" She shares the story of one of her readers. For some it will seem quite banal, and for some it will be very instructive. In any case, the housing issue has not left anyone indifferent, so we think you will want to speak out after reading it.

My father’s father’s brother, Uncle Kohl, has always been a very gentle person. Even the loss of his beloved wife did not make him more callous. He remained a simple-minded cheerful man who was ready to give the last shirt to anyone who asked for it.

This bright man could in the blink of an eye make anyone forget their sorrows and find a reason to smile. And for him, the only joy after the departure of his dear wife was the 23-year-old son Kostya.



Last summer Kostya brought a girl into the house. Uncle Kohl didn't mind. He said it was young, let them live. And after a while, it turned out that the guys are going to have a wedding.



Kostya did not ask his father for money for the wedding, he said that the bride's parents would pay for everything. They say people are wealthy, and they offered to pay for the celebration. After all, the only daughter is married, it is not a sin to fork out.

My uncle was starting to worry a lot. He lived in retirement and had no savings. And a gift to my son and daughter-in-law in honor of such an event I wanted to give a grandiose. So he decided to issue a gift to his house, so that the young did not guess where they stumbled and were calm for their future.



My mom and I talked my uncle out of it. My mother heard many stories from friends about how children evicted elderly parents from their homes. Kostya is a good guy, but it is impossible to predict how his son will behave when he gets the house at his disposal.



But that sister didn't believe it and went to the notary. My mom was nervous all day waiting for a call from her brother. And I finally waited.



Around six in the evening, Kohl’s uncle informed his mother that he had changed his mind to arrange the house for his son and asked to borrow money for a gift to Costa. He said he had a better idea, but he didn't have enough money to implement it. Mom, of course, agreed. He asked his brother what made him change his mind.



It turned out that the notary confirmed the mother’s fears, telling how he himself was a witness of such unpleasant situations, which gossip mother’s friends. He then advised us not to rush into such decisions. Like, Kostya is already the only heir, so the house in any case will get him. In the meantime, Uncle Kolya will be able to live out his life without worrying about anything.

Do you think the notary did the right thing to dissuade our hero from giving his own home to his son? Should we doubt the integrity of our children? Looking forward to the comments! We're really curious what you think of this story.