Why should a man marry at ninety?

When senior marrying a young lady, it causes increased interest among others. Immediately there are speculations, rumors and various theories appear. They start coming up with stories about money and inheritance, about mutual PR and something else. Sometimes this happens in unequal marriages. But always?

Today's edition. "Site" It offers to reflect on why successful older men not only build relationships with young ladies, but also call them to marry. Should a man be judged for deciding to make changes in his life in solid years?



Famous choreographer and dancer Grigory Chapkis recently struck the audience with the admission that he secretly married for the fourth time. This is especially surprising, because this year the winner of three international competitions, as well as the People’s Artist of Ukraine turned 90 years old.

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2020 stands alone in the history of my life. First, I celebrated my 90th birthday. Second, I got married. Third, I bought an apartment. I try to be worthy of a woman who has dedicated her time to me when my life is heading towards the sunset.

Grigory Chapkis was married three times. From her first marriage, she has a daughter, Lilia, who runs a ballet school in Arezzo, Italy (Tuscan province). From his second marriage, he has a son, Gregory, who works as a choreographer in San Francisco.

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There are Chapkis and granddaughters who also have a craving for beauty. Granddaughter Anna managed to become a movie star and model. As for the youngest, Victoria, she opened her own dance school.

Interestingly, Grigory Chapkis’ new wife is 52 years younger than him. It turns out that she is even a little younger than his older granddaughter. However, the choreographer himself is sure that age does not interfere with him. Moreover, with his second wife, Grigory Nikolaevich also had a significant age difference (he is 50, she is 28 years old).

“My second wife and I broke up for the usual reason. That happens to a lot of people. She was going to live in America, and I wanted to live in Ukraine, explained Grigory Chapkis.

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The choreographer broke up with his third wife in 2016. But already in 2019, the man (at 89 years old) admitted that he does not feel lonely at all. Moreover, he got a young woman who gave him a new meaning of life. The dancer spoke very warmly of her.

“I need someone to look after, surprise, surprise. I can't say she's my wife and we have a stamp. We're alive, but she's not ready yet. They accept me for who I am. Can you imagine me without a woman? I don’t think so! the man said last year.

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And although Chapkis preferred not to talk about marriage then, now the couple has legalized their relationship. Journalists have not yet been able to determine who the woman is. It remains to wait until the choreographer himself decides to introduce his young wife to the public.

Many believe that relations with the difference between partners in half a century have no future. But what is the future? A year together, two, five? If people are happy in a relationship, if they enjoy each other’s company and look at things objectively, what’s stopping them from being together?

A couple may conform to all existing stereotypes, but break up a month after marriage. Or it may not fit into the existing framework, but it is great to have time and enjoy each new day.

Usually, older men contact young girls to amuse their self-esteem, stand out among peers (and younger men), something to prove to someone.

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Grigory Chapkis, as a successful and adored by many people, constantly surrounded by beautiful girls, definitely does not need such nonsense. He himself admits that dancing and women are his secret of youth, happiness and strength. Rejecting something is like signing your own sentence.