Why You Should Check Divorce Documents From Your Loved One

The relationship between a married man and a woman is not just about unfaithful husbands and mistresses. Sometimes life is much more complicated than it seems, and you should not immediately judge people without really understanding the situation. Today we will tell the story of a woman who has been living and raising a child with a man for 6 years. And this man has not yet formalized a divorce from his ex-wife.



Until then, I was completely confident that I was happy with my husband. We have been living with Oleg for 6 years, we have a four-year-old son. Oleg is an attentive and caring father. Despite the fact that we are not the first year together, the romance in the relationship has not gone away. He gives me flowers for no reason and often cooks a romantic dinner on weekends.



A couple of years ago, we had to live in rented housing. Oleg took it upon himself to pay for the apartment on his own. Only recently, we took an apartment in a mortgage, we must once get our own housing. My parents help us pay the mortgage. We live together, do not scandal, and kind of enough money for a peaceful cozy life. I took on the duties of the keeper of the hearth. I love cooking and cleaning the house. By profession, I am a seamstress, from time to time I sew things to people to order at home. Money is never superfluous, and I love my job, so I try to devote some free time to it.



From his first marriage, Oleg has a teenage daughter. They often communicate, get along well with their ex-wife. I never asked why they separated. Obviously not from the good life. But how it happened that they are still not officially divorced, I can not understand. For 6 years, the child was born out of wedlock, which is unacceptable for my family. I love this man very much and I am ready to wait.



Oleg was already living separately when we met him. I didn't take him away from my wife. It's just a shame that we still have to joke and say we're sorry for the wedding money when friends ask about getting married. I wonder why mom and dad have different names. But it's not just that.



Another thing worries me: the mortgage is issued for my husband, and my parents and I also participate in the payment. It turns out that his legal wife has the right to the apartment in which we live. It's a little scary. Friends are also sore that I can stay at the broken trough. But I don't listen to them. But my mother can’t stand it, right in the forehead asked when the wedding was already. I'm embarrassed, and Oleg is silent. I don't even know how to talk to him about a divorce from his ex-wife.



That’s why it’s always important to check your partner’s passport. Trust is great, but not everyone is one hundred percent honest. Why do you think Oleg has not divorced his first wife?