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A friend is afraid of losing a loved one, if there is not enough money for an expensive haircut and a new outfit
A man is always afraid of something. There is nothing strange about this, because the instinct of self-preservation has not been abolished. It's much deeper than a hungry crocodile in a murky river where you've accidentally fallen. However, your rank in society can also be attributed to him. So people are constantly thinking, lose.
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And we're in the newsroom. "Site" We try to approach these things philosophically. Perhaps this is the only way to develop any situation to benefit from it. One idea is that many modern fears are imposed. They are nurtured in us by television, the Internet and even school.
You know, nobody's ever lost a loved one because they just started walking home in their old sports pants. Or he stopped doing his daily routines. Stop dressing up every day. lace Or tired of painting your nails. At the same time, all fashionable resources require this kind of behavior from us.
We all want to look better than we are. Present yourself better, sell out. We are afraid that we will not be accepted as we really are. Without getting anything, we lose our freedom and control over our decisions. Because conditions dictate to us from somewhere above. Let's try this: Do you remember your mother?
Did it matter what she looked like? You still thought she was the most beautiful. But she most likely never wore cosmetics, did not wear chic dresses and was hardly a queen. It is strange to think that it would somehow stop you and you would not want to visit her.
When you love, your man looks perfect. You will give up everything to be close to your heart. You'll walk through all sorts of obstacles and then you'll walk around in your old sports pants. And she'll be without a makeup. Is it so terrible to lose all this gloss? You know how much it doesn't matter?
It's another thing when you start thinking that your man will never leave you. Allow yourself some kind of mentoring, complacency, power. And the man goes. Because you don't ask, you demand. You don't trust, you control. Here's how it works. survivalism.
You don't ask, but you invent. Inventing things that don't exist. You start comparing, trying it on, and you're afraid of losing it. But what's really lost is this subtle, human thing that sometimes lands you and sometimes lifts you high up into the sky. Look at your kids. Would they be worse off if they didn't go to space or go abroad?
There is nothing to lose, and goods They won’t be important at critical moments. When you go to another country for a few years and say goodbye to your wife on the platform, you will not think about her nails. It will be important for you to look into her troubled eyes, press harder and pray that soon you will meet again.
You can lose face, all the money, home, homeland. But you can't lose love. It can even suppress the instinct of self-preservation. Then you rise to the full height and feel complete freedom. Everything. You're not scared, even if it's yours. last minute. Because it doesn't matter right now.
People who go through this experience know the value of instant happiness. They know how great it is when carefree children laugh. When the sun sets on a warm evening slowly. They know what your loved one’s smile is worth. Let's watch it together later. glossy and discuss fashion. But it won't matter at all.
This does not mean that you should not strive for anything and “eat” everything that you give. Reality is subjective for everyone. If you can’t find beauty in everything around you, why do you hope to find beauty in life at all? You can paint your nails and do your hair. Can you do the same with your soul?
About that, lose Also, be sure to write in the comments. We understand that this whole text may not be important to you. Life is difficult and sometimes does not tolerate sentiment. But then what do you live for? Read our material about how to cope with the loss of a loved one and how much it can affect us. Thank you for staying with us!
47And we're in the newsroom. "Site" We try to approach these things philosophically. Perhaps this is the only way to develop any situation to benefit from it. One idea is that many modern fears are imposed. They are nurtured in us by television, the Internet and even school.
You know, nobody's ever lost a loved one because they just started walking home in their old sports pants. Or he stopped doing his daily routines. Stop dressing up every day. lace Or tired of painting your nails. At the same time, all fashionable resources require this kind of behavior from us.
We all want to look better than we are. Present yourself better, sell out. We are afraid that we will not be accepted as we really are. Without getting anything, we lose our freedom and control over our decisions. Because conditions dictate to us from somewhere above. Let's try this: Do you remember your mother?
Did it matter what she looked like? You still thought she was the most beautiful. But she most likely never wore cosmetics, did not wear chic dresses and was hardly a queen. It is strange to think that it would somehow stop you and you would not want to visit her.
When you love, your man looks perfect. You will give up everything to be close to your heart. You'll walk through all sorts of obstacles and then you'll walk around in your old sports pants. And she'll be without a makeup. Is it so terrible to lose all this gloss? You know how much it doesn't matter?
It's another thing when you start thinking that your man will never leave you. Allow yourself some kind of mentoring, complacency, power. And the man goes. Because you don't ask, you demand. You don't trust, you control. Here's how it works. survivalism.
You don't ask, but you invent. Inventing things that don't exist. You start comparing, trying it on, and you're afraid of losing it. But what's really lost is this subtle, human thing that sometimes lands you and sometimes lifts you high up into the sky. Look at your kids. Would they be worse off if they didn't go to space or go abroad?
There is nothing to lose, and goods They won’t be important at critical moments. When you go to another country for a few years and say goodbye to your wife on the platform, you will not think about her nails. It will be important for you to look into her troubled eyes, press harder and pray that soon you will meet again.
You can lose face, all the money, home, homeland. But you can't lose love. It can even suppress the instinct of self-preservation. Then you rise to the full height and feel complete freedom. Everything. You're not scared, even if it's yours. last minute. Because it doesn't matter right now.
People who go through this experience know the value of instant happiness. They know how great it is when carefree children laugh. When the sun sets on a warm evening slowly. They know what your loved one’s smile is worth. Let's watch it together later. glossy and discuss fashion. But it won't matter at all.
This does not mean that you should not strive for anything and “eat” everything that you give. Reality is subjective for everyone. If you can’t find beauty in everything around you, why do you hope to find beauty in life at all? You can paint your nails and do your hair. Can you do the same with your soul?
About that, lose Also, be sure to write in the comments. We understand that this whole text may not be important to you. Life is difficult and sometimes does not tolerate sentiment. But then what do you live for? Read our material about how to cope with the loss of a loved one and how much it can affect us. Thank you for staying with us!
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