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What to do if you refuse delicious even for a man
Can being overweight prevent you from getting into a romantic relationship? What are people capable of for love and family? Why is it important to change for yourself and not for the approval of others? That's what the editorial board is about. "Site" I suggest we talk today.
For as long as I can remember, all my life I was a lump. It so happened that the figure I went to my mother. In childhood, excess weight almost did not cause inconvenience. I felt quite comfortable in my body. So even the vicious jokes of classmates could not make me think about losing weight, writes Evgenia.
However, as I grew older, other problems began to be added to the harsh comments about my appearance. For example, inconvenience when choosing clothes, as well as conflicts in relationships with guys. Every time I started dating a guy, I was sure that he accepted me and loved me for who I was. But at the end of my choice, all as one, gave me a cruel ultimatum: either I get rid of extra pounds, or we part.
I had to adhere to strict diets, which subsequently forced me to solve health problems. I spent all my free time training hard, struggling to change for the better for love. In the end, she achieved incredible results. But even after all my titanic efforts, the relationship soon ended.
After losing weight, I understood that the man next to me does not care about my health or my moral state. And I could only cope with the offense by eating it. So it went on for seven years. I built relationships again, lost weight again, gained weight again, and then lost those for whom I tried to change.
Only recently have I realized the root cause of my problem. Each time I chose someone else rather than myself. Each time I changed for the love of another person, not being ready for any personal change. Instead, I just had to accept myself and love myself.
Listening to my inner voice and realizing that the problem is not how much I weigh, but how I feel about it, I finally managed to become a truly confident woman.
And then I found the love of my life. On February 17, we will celebrate our third wedding anniversary. And to say that three years of this relationship have been the best of my life is to say nothing. I'm insanely happy!
Have you experienced such problems in your relationship? Do you think it is worth changing yourself for the sake of your loved one, or is it better, like our heroine, just to wait for your person who completely accepts you?
For as long as I can remember, all my life I was a lump. It so happened that the figure I went to my mother. In childhood, excess weight almost did not cause inconvenience. I felt quite comfortable in my body. So even the vicious jokes of classmates could not make me think about losing weight, writes Evgenia.
However, as I grew older, other problems began to be added to the harsh comments about my appearance. For example, inconvenience when choosing clothes, as well as conflicts in relationships with guys. Every time I started dating a guy, I was sure that he accepted me and loved me for who I was. But at the end of my choice, all as one, gave me a cruel ultimatum: either I get rid of extra pounds, or we part.
I had to adhere to strict diets, which subsequently forced me to solve health problems. I spent all my free time training hard, struggling to change for the better for love. In the end, she achieved incredible results. But even after all my titanic efforts, the relationship soon ended.
After losing weight, I understood that the man next to me does not care about my health or my moral state. And I could only cope with the offense by eating it. So it went on for seven years. I built relationships again, lost weight again, gained weight again, and then lost those for whom I tried to change.
Only recently have I realized the root cause of my problem. Each time I chose someone else rather than myself. Each time I changed for the love of another person, not being ready for any personal change. Instead, I just had to accept myself and love myself.
Listening to my inner voice and realizing that the problem is not how much I weigh, but how I feel about it, I finally managed to become a truly confident woman.
And then I found the love of my life. On February 17, we will celebrate our third wedding anniversary. And to say that three years of this relationship have been the best of my life is to say nothing. I'm insanely happy!
Have you experienced such problems in your relationship? Do you think it is worth changing yourself for the sake of your loved one, or is it better, like our heroine, just to wait for your person who completely accepts you?
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