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Where does Mikhail Labkovsky have confidence that a divorced man is able to build a strong family?
In the question of the right choice of husband, women's opinions tend to differ. One wants to create a family from scratch, together stuffing the first bumps and getting precious experience. Others, on the contrary, believe that divorcee A more attractive option for marriage.
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This topic causes a lot of controversy not only among women, but also among narrow specialists. For example, Mikhail Labkovsky, a Russian psychologist, believes that marriage is more likely to be happy if the marriage is successful. The man has been married before.. So what is this pattern? We'll talk about that later.
The divorced man Labkowski clearly divides men into those who were married and those who were not. In many ways, this can affect the further relationship with a woman. For example, a divorced person already knows, What is the creation of a familyIn general, his life orientation is clear.
On the contrary, a 30-year-old or 40-year-old man, who until the last postponed the marriage, from the outside. doesn't look sure. Moreover, such a person can be under the constant influence of his mother and in principle do not need the trembling care and love of women.
The psychologist warns that divorcee There is no guarantee that marriage will be one hundred percent successful. Here it is important to pay attention to several aspects. First of all, a woman must get an answer to the logical question: “Why did my man’s last marriage break up?” Then put yourself in the place of the ex-wife of a man and analyze the situation. “Is the reason serious? Can I have the same problem? are the main questions.
A sane man He will never blame his ex-wife for the divorce.. He will put the problem on the shelves and explain where he was guilty in the first place. If a person blames others for everything, you can not expect a happy future with him. Most likely, he is an irresponsible, conflicted and windy person. And if he showed his worst qualities to one woman, so will another.
Sometimes women naively think they can. reform. However, such cases are rather an exception to the rule. An adult with his own unique character, unfortunately, will not be able to radically change. As a result, a woman will simply step on someone else's rake.
In addition, Labkovsky asks to pay attention to another important point. Women need to understand that in no way Cannot change a man’s past.. If she can't come to terms with the fact that he had another family, you shouldn't even start building a relationship.
It is also often the case that a woman She does not accept her husband’s children.. An unhealthy reaction to a husband’s interaction with a child from a first marriage will not lead to anything good. He will begin to close himself, and soon there will be nothing left of the love relationship. After all, do not forget that a decent man will want his new life partner, on the contrary, make friends with his children. And that's a normal, healthy desire.
If a man has children from his first marriage, he will often have contact with his ex-wife. Of course, not every woman will like it. However, this should be treated calmly and even with pride. Because support good relations with ex-spouse - that's okay. It is much worse if a man is aggressive. Agree, this characterizes him not from the best side.
© Freepik Of course in this matter A lot depends on your ex-wife.. If she is an adequate person, she will not get into other people's relationships and fool her head without reason. And if she's a wacky woman, at some point the man will stop helping her.
The problem of modern people in their Endless jealousy and possessiveness. Mikhail Labkovsky urges to be more sensible and wise. Why don’t we help each other in difficult times? “I met some amazing people once. Almost a clan in which there were ex-spouses and their new partners. All of them got along well, and the children grew up in love and care. A real example! – shared the psychologist.
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Tell us in the comments whether you share the point of view of Mikhail Labkovsky. It will be great to discuss such an interesting and rather sensitive topic. So we look forward to seeing you downstairs!
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#Labkovo #psychology #psychologist #psychologyrelations
A post shared by Evgeniy Korol (@korolprophoto) on Oct 22, 2020 at 8:29am PDT
This topic causes a lot of controversy not only among women, but also among narrow specialists. For example, Mikhail Labkovsky, a Russian psychologist, believes that marriage is more likely to be happy if the marriage is successful. The man has been married before.. So what is this pattern? We'll talk about that later.
The divorced man Labkowski clearly divides men into those who were married and those who were not. In many ways, this can affect the further relationship with a woman. For example, a divorced person already knows, What is the creation of a familyIn general, his life orientation is clear.
On the contrary, a 30-year-old or 40-year-old man, who until the last postponed the marriage, from the outside. doesn't look sure. Moreover, such a person can be under the constant influence of his mother and in principle do not need the trembling care and love of women.
The psychologist warns that divorcee There is no guarantee that marriage will be one hundred percent successful. Here it is important to pay attention to several aspects. First of all, a woman must get an answer to the logical question: “Why did my man’s last marriage break up?” Then put yourself in the place of the ex-wife of a man and analyze the situation. “Is the reason serious? Can I have the same problem? are the main questions.
A sane man He will never blame his ex-wife for the divorce.. He will put the problem on the shelves and explain where he was guilty in the first place. If a person blames others for everything, you can not expect a happy future with him. Most likely, he is an irresponsible, conflicted and windy person. And if he showed his worst qualities to one woman, so will another.
Sometimes women naively think they can. reform. However, such cases are rather an exception to the rule. An adult with his own unique character, unfortunately, will not be able to radically change. As a result, a woman will simply step on someone else's rake.
In addition, Labkovsky asks to pay attention to another important point. Women need to understand that in no way Cannot change a man’s past.. If she can't come to terms with the fact that he had another family, you shouldn't even start building a relationship.
It is also often the case that a woman She does not accept her husband’s children.. An unhealthy reaction to a husband’s interaction with a child from a first marriage will not lead to anything good. He will begin to close himself, and soon there will be nothing left of the love relationship. After all, do not forget that a decent man will want his new life partner, on the contrary, make friends with his children. And that's a normal, healthy desire.
If a man has children from his first marriage, he will often have contact with his ex-wife. Of course, not every woman will like it. However, this should be treated calmly and even with pride. Because support good relations with ex-spouse - that's okay. It is much worse if a man is aggressive. Agree, this characterizes him not from the best side.
© Freepik Of course in this matter A lot depends on your ex-wife.. If she is an adequate person, she will not get into other people's relationships and fool her head without reason. And if she's a wacky woman, at some point the man will stop helping her.
The problem of modern people in their Endless jealousy and possessiveness. Mikhail Labkovsky urges to be more sensible and wise. Why don’t we help each other in difficult times? “I met some amazing people once. Almost a clan in which there were ex-spouses and their new partners. All of them got along well, and the children grew up in love and care. A real example! – shared the psychologist.
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Tell us in the comments whether you share the point of view of Mikhail Labkovsky. It will be great to discuss such an interesting and rather sensitive topic. So we look forward to seeing you downstairs!
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