Where is the connection between husband’s avarice and wife’s beauty?

Is it possible to convince an extremely frugal husband that it is worth giving an expensive gift to his younger sister for the wedding? And is it worth spending a lot on a present, if the sister herself presents only cheap souvenirs for the holidays? No one can answer these questions more comprehensively than the heroine of our history today.

My little sister and I have always been very friendly. Unlike other kids, we never fought over toys or parental gifts. On the contrary, they were ready to give each other the most precious things. It has always been, and it will remain so.



Now, even though we're both old enough to take care of ourselves, I don't stop helping my sister. At the moment, my financial situation is much better than hers. So every time she asks, I come to the rescue.



My husband didn’t understand this from the beginning of our relationship. In his family, it is not customary, as he calls it, to spread money. Even though his parents were wealthy, they never helped their adult children or other relatives financially when needed. Since, in their opinion, financial assistance to family members instills in them the habit of begging and surviving at the expense of others, instead of learning to solve their problems on their own.



While I deeply respect the life principles of my husband and his parents, I am not willing to give up my own. My parents and I left too early. So we became each other’s only support and support. And no matter what anyone says, I am not going to regret something (including money) for my relatives.



My husband and I have argued many times about which of us is right. But the scandal he caused on the eve of my sister’s wedding is no bigger than any dispute he had before.



The fact is that I ordered a very expensive washing machine for the wedding gift. Olga always dreamed of such, but could not afford it. I thought it was a good gift for a young family. I bought it without consulting my husband.



When the husband found out about it, he was furious. He started screaming that she was sucking all the money out of me and giving me worthless trinkets. And then he said if I didn't stop this madness, he'd file for divorce. It was only then that I realized how badly I knew my husband. And of course, it's not hard to guess who I chose in the end.”