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How a mother-in-law's Sunday visit can ruin family relationships
A family quarrel that arose due to disagreements in the financial issue is perhaps one of the most common reasons for the onset of a protracted family crisis. It is good when the spouses manage to settle the conflict and come to an agreement. But when the monetary issue of the family becomes the subject of discussion of relatives, it is worth preparing for the fact that its resolution will take more than one week.
A vivid illustration of this can serve as a story from the life of one of our readers. We will share this story with you today.
Recently, our relationship with my husband was already quite strained, so now even the mother-in-law adds fuel to the fire.
The thing is that in a couple of weeks Inna (my husband Vitalik’s sister) gets married. We were among the first to receive invitations. Whether I should go there, I doubted for a long time.
We have a great relationship with Inna, but the rest of my husband’s relatives simply do not perceive me and constantly try to hurt me. Especially my mother-in-law. She can't stand me at all, thinks that her son could find someone better.
After many persuasion Vitalik, I decided to go to the wedding. And to cheer myself up and prepare for the upcoming event, I decided to buy a new dress. Of course, I also did not forget about my husband - I picked him up a chic three-piece suit and was satisfied with shopping home. My husband and I usually save on almost everything. I thought he'd appreciate my urge to make up for his sister's party. But it wasn't...
Not only did my husband make a scandal and call me a spender, but I also had to return the dress. And in the evening after the quarrel, our mother-in-law came to her and Vitalik sobered up about everything in spirit.
Good family, you can't say anything! The fact that I spend the same winter in the same boots for several years, no one sees. But as I decided to buy a dress once in a hundred years, so they made me an enemy of the people.
Of course, the costume was left for my husband. He's a witness, you have to be beautiful. Let his wife walk like an orphan.
I don't even know if I'm going to that wedding. There is no hunting to celebrate anything with these people.
A vivid illustration of this can serve as a story from the life of one of our readers. We will share this story with you today.
Recently, our relationship with my husband was already quite strained, so now even the mother-in-law adds fuel to the fire.
The thing is that in a couple of weeks Inna (my husband Vitalik’s sister) gets married. We were among the first to receive invitations. Whether I should go there, I doubted for a long time.
We have a great relationship with Inna, but the rest of my husband’s relatives simply do not perceive me and constantly try to hurt me. Especially my mother-in-law. She can't stand me at all, thinks that her son could find someone better.
After many persuasion Vitalik, I decided to go to the wedding. And to cheer myself up and prepare for the upcoming event, I decided to buy a new dress. Of course, I also did not forget about my husband - I picked him up a chic three-piece suit and was satisfied with shopping home. My husband and I usually save on almost everything. I thought he'd appreciate my urge to make up for his sister's party. But it wasn't...
Not only did my husband make a scandal and call me a spender, but I also had to return the dress. And in the evening after the quarrel, our mother-in-law came to her and Vitalik sobered up about everything in spirit.
Good family, you can't say anything! The fact that I spend the same winter in the same boots for several years, no one sees. But as I decided to buy a dress once in a hundred years, so they made me an enemy of the people.
Of course, the costume was left for my husband. He's a witness, you have to be beautiful. Let his wife walk like an orphan.
I don't even know if I'm going to that wedding. There is no hunting to celebrate anything with these people.
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