The experience of a man in years who hangs out on dates with 30-year-olds, 40-year-olds and 50-year-olds

In the era of total digitalization, we all know. How to meet the Internet. To do this, there are various specialized sites and applications that can be downloaded to the phone. Hundreds of attractive men or women can be on your smartphone at once!



It is no wonder that such online dating platforms They're so popular. And they are used by young people and more mature people. Love has no age, right? This is evidenced by the hero of today’s article, a 55-year-old man who decided to conduct something like a social experiment. What happened to that, read on.

Despite my rather mature age, I did not work out with my family. In youth, everyone makes mistakes. Especially the love part. Then people are guided by their desires, living passions and thinking little about the future. Something like that happened to me.

I'm 55 now and I'm still on the team of attractive, fit, mature men. Women’s attention is not alien to me, and I love it very much. I am a fan of dating and I know how to meet people online. At my age, I don’t want to meet on the street, and the time is not the same. But the Internet is different: first you can communicate with a person, get to know him better. And then invite me to a meeting.



If a woman is pleasant to me, I will certainly invite her to a restaurant. I'll meet a rose at the entrance, give the lady a hand if she gets out of the cab. At the end of the day I will pay the entire bill. It's a ritual for me! However, women do not always appreciate this. Now I will try to explain what I mean.

Recently I had as many as 3 dates with girls of different ages. And I once again saw how the maturity of a woman affects her behavior, appearance and manners. I tell you in detail about each meeting.

The first date of the first woman just turned 47 years old. You can see that she looks after herself, dresses with taste, following fashion trends. She had a great walk, and in the restaurant she was very free. I was attracted to her friendliness and freedom of communication.

But when we started talking about the car, it changed. The thing is, I don't drive. I don’t want to buy a car, but I can buy one tomorrow. If I have to go somewhere, I call a taxi. It's very simple. However, the lady did not like it terribly: “A married couple must have a car!”



For the rest of the evening, she kept talking about it. And when I told her in a rather harsh tone that I would never have a car, she just got up and left. To be honest, I liked it. The lady appreciates her time and does not want to waste it on unpromising conversations for her. It's understandable. I just enjoyed her attempts to seduce me.

The second woman was 37 years old. When we first began to correspond, she immediately noted that she loves mature men. During the meeting, she talked more about herself. It turned out that she has two children, a mortgage, and she is engaged in some creative projects, exhibitions. In general, it seems that she is not looking for a man, but a pocket with money.



I suspect she was hoping that a mature man like me would take the young bait. I won't deny it, it happened. But beyond the fleeting meetings at my home, our communication did not go away. In this case, a relationship without obligations is the ideal solution.

The last lady was 2 years older than me. She came to the restaurant in her car and looked pretty posh. In conversation, she behaved freely, felt that she was well brought up and educated.



During the conversation, I learned that she had a big dog, a Labrador. Therefore, on the weekends she often goes to her dacha outside the city. The meeting took place in one breath and I did not want to finish it at the restaurant. The lady offered to take a ride and visit her for a coffee. I left her far past midnight with a full sense of satisfaction.

The next morning I woke up to a ringing phone. It was the same lady who said in a dissatisfied voice that she was expecting a call from me. And then she told me to come to her dacha and help fix the faucet in the kitchen.



I confess that I was speechless at first. Of course, I will always be happy to help a woman if she needs it. But it shouldn't happen in that form. It was like a woman was ordering me, and I'm not her dog. Then I heard a lot of unflattering words about myself, saying that I just used it last night and I don’t want to give anything in return. Excuse me?



In general, I want to say that a woman is different from a woman. Sometimes the first impression is deceptive, and sometimes accurately describes the person. It needs to be understood and accepted. Especially if you know how to get acquainted online. I'll keep going on dates because I like it. But I want to meet the one that you can really trust. Not someone who wants to manipulate and control me.

Well, of course, the editorial board has a couple of questions for today's hero, and his position is not close to us in everything. But he's right about something. Do you think it's even necessary? Serious relationships with people over 50? What age difference is acceptable to you in choosing a partner? Please leave your comments at the bottom!