6 ridiculous stereotypes that do not allow to build a happy relationship

Each of us is a perfect novel, but in these 6 myths of the perfect couple, many believe. And in vain. Faith in some of the popular stereotypes about relationships sometimes creates problems even where they did not exist before.

The website brings 6 of the most common misconceptions that we must immediately stop believing, if you want to create a strong relationship.

1. In an ideal relationship there are no differences





You will be surprised, but quarrels and conflicts is a sign that the relationship isn't "stalled". Even if you and your partner are very close, what is the probability that you will be agree always and everywhere? Good relationships are not those where there is no conflict, and those where people know how to constructively cope with conflict.

Another question is what to do with these conflicts? A healthy pair will try to eliminate them. Unhealthy as living on a powder keg and calls this process the word "passion".

2. Perfect couples always get married





"When the wedding going to walk?" — ask friends and parents. Tired of such interrogations, often some want to answer honestly "never." Readiness for marriage and children may occur in a variety of stages of life and not to create a chain of causality. People need to understand that marriage and children is purely a private matter.

3. In a perfect pair of male — breadwinner and female — homemaker





One of the most banal stereotypes. Couples in which all wrong or quite the opposite, you begin to wonder about the perfection of their relationship. And the relationship begins to deteriorate from the fact that simply do not match with public perceptions.

Sometimes it happens that some few woman — the organizer and leader, and the man — a personal support group and cook. And that's absolutely fine. And the best option if your pair of equality and there are no specific getters and keepers.

4. For ideal partners do not exist other people





Loyalty is always a choice, and libido — unconscious process. If you thought girls flashed someone else besides her boyfriend or she's accidentally seen her boyfriend for a second and looked at other people's feet, that's no reason to worry. It's absolutely as natural as breathing and eating. And does not mean that paired something went wrong.

But the cheating is already a serious measure of the "imperfection" of love. After all, any healthy relationship requires an unspoken agreement of loyalty.

5. Partner understands me perfectly





Fortunately, none of us are psychic and can't read the thoughts of another. Hence the burden of problems and resentment hidden deep "under the skin". Most couples break up, and not knowing each other. And most women are disappointed in men, and did not open the best side of their personality. Partners in a healthy relationship, not timid, and solve problems and learn together to overcome the complex issues of everyday life.

6. A man and a woman — two halves of a whole





According to this stereotype a single person are inadequate. While the really happy people are only self-sufficient, whole and harmonious. The myth of the two halves is applicable only in respect of the responsibility to pair both. The "We are one!" supposed to mean the relationship, not completely dissolved in each other.

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