Relationship with money: it is necessary not sufficient, and a lot happens that will not find it

"Everyone has their skeletons in the closet"
(English proverb)

 

Who among us would not want wealth and prosperity?

It's funny, but it turned out that the problems of a beggar and a millionaire about money is absolutely the same and can be expressed by a simple sentence: "of Course, I have some money, but it's nothing compared to what we have with all the other...".

With childhood behind us a trail of values and beliefs that we literally "imbibed with mother's milk" and plucked from the important to us. The idea of "historical materialism" has also left its deep imprint in the Collective Unconscious of Mother Russia.

Many of these values and beliefs, of old age, hidden from our consciousness, but continue to have in our lives the fateful impact.

"If you think all rich people are thieves and swindlers, how you can become one of them???"





So, at the end of the last century in the United States, "suddenly" preoccupied with one problem that was the fact that more and more American citizens began to prefer existence on the Dole than to make any efforts for making money.

People prefer either to do nothing or to be creative. It got to the point that high society became unseemly to admit that you are engaged in any business, non-business associated in some way with creativity in the traditional sense of the word (cinema, theater, paintings, shows, etc., etc.).

There was even a State Program was adopted to stimulate different ways of entrepreneurship. In the framework of this programme and from public funds allocated in the form of grants, become like mushrooms to receive the various sites and firms that promise (and sometimes fulfilling promises) in various ways "to deal with your skeletons" and "loose" all the "tails" to, ultimately, nurture the entrepreneurial streak in the American citizen. By the way, the movies "the Secret" and "Rabbit hole" was also created in the framework of this program...

The same grants were made and serious psychological studies, so to say, "know your enemy". So we also had a chance to get acquainted with the most popular "skeletons" that keep us in our prosperity.

As a result, we have, as a minimum, there should be a choice – either to continue "to be proud of his bedwetting" or to make every effort to literally by the hair to pull yourself out of this godforsaken swamp....

However, I do not entertain great hopes, for, as written in the Congress of the United States: "If the suffering you can endure, people prefer to endure suffering than to do anything real to stop them".





So:

1. The fear of success;

2. Self-sabotage;

3. The fear of failure;

4. Guilt from the fact that you have more than others;

5. The fear that you'll become greedy or(and) dishonest;

6. The guilt from what you want more than others have;

7. The guilt from what you want to have the advantages;

8. The fear that friends will reject you if you become more successful than they are;

9. The fear that you will have to reject friends, if you become more successful than they are;

10. The fear that you will envy;

11. The fear to stand out from the crowd;

12. The fear that people will humbly grovel before you;

13. The fear that you will have to adapt to the detriment of personal freedom (loss of the comfort zone);

14. Feelings of inadequacy from what you little. — Secondary trauma (a term from psychotherapy), inspired by the movie "the Secret", which says that "real boys" should feel a sense of prosperity to attract wealth, "who Have, those will multiply who are not – taken away the last" (Jesus Christ)

15. Lack of faith in its value (a sense of insignificance) is that you are worthy to have more than you have;

16. Lack of faith in your abilities – what you are able to earn more than they earn (or get) now;

17. Fear of becoming the object of criminal attention;

18. The fear to seem (or be) selfish;

19. The fear that if you take a lot, the source of resources (money, food, etc.) might dry up;

20. The belief that resources are limited in the world ("all calculated...");

21. The conviction that "take is not godly", "Getting more, you take the other";

22. The fear of losing group identity: "my family was poor but honest," "Russian – spiritual nation" (read – all the material is alien to them), "All my friends have average income, but honestly earn by their labor", etc., etc.;

23. The fear that, no matter how obtained, will never be enough;

24. The belief that money doesn't come easy to a lot of money, you have to work very hard;

25. The belief that you can be either happy or rich, not the middle;

26. The belief that the rich can't marry (to get married) for love;

27. Anyway, I will not be able to take with them "in that light pockets no";

29. The belief that "money is the devil's spawn";

30. Self-punishment for something (guilt);

31. Revenge someone (resentment, anger).

As you can see, the eternal enemies of humanity: guilt, resentment, fear, and anger again entwined in a tight knot, when we tried to understand our relationship with money...

 



Tony Robbins: Remember that all actions have consequences, the ENERGY of MONEY: whether to give or to borrow money in debt,Now we at least know from what we need to get rid of. That's just somewhere in the background continues to sorbet question — what if turns out like the saying: "out of the frying pan into the fire"? After all, "you need not sufficient, and a lot happens that will not find it"...

Let's take a simple analogy. Health is merely the absence of disease, or something more? That's only answer to these questions have each their own...

 

Author: Andrei Patrushev

 

P. S. And remember, only by changing their consumption — together we change the world! ©

Source: www.mindmachine.ru/articles/hvost.htm