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We have to sacrifice for love
The phrase "Die for you" or "anything For you" good for a romantic melodrama, but not for a real relationship. And even if parents and teachers have convinced you that without sacrifice it is impossible for anything to succeed in love, it usually works exactly the opposite: the more you donate and pushes himself into the background, the more uncomfortable you will feel in your Union.
Since you no longer 16 years old, to love deeply and sincerely does not mean that you have to give the man anything he asks, for the sake of the story continued. What grown women should never sacrifice for love?
Freedom to do what you want If you imagine the life of love as a drive in the car, just sit in the back seat: first, all seem relaxed trip, during which you can relax and look out the window, and then you can feel that you are taking does not go where promised. Do not lose control of the ability to independently make decisions and take control of your life, so it is not ordered on their own someone else.
Friends Men like the stronger sex, and in fact, friends – our main defenders of life. Someone, of course, with the women's friendship is not lucky, but normally intelligent adult females missing one of the lacrimal gap to 25 years to practice to check that men of all kinds and degrees of prosperity "smooth trail" and then have to sleep on the couch from the best friend.
Hair, make-up and wardrobe He may not like what you before leaving the house half an hour doing hands, or buy three different products for hair, or keep your shoes in several closets in the apartment (because it doesn't fit, and the seasonality has not been canceled). And you, in turn, can doubt that with such whims from your relationship even less likely in the future than a dried up mascara. Better that than to go to the criticism of his clothing habits and to finish that from love to hatred one step.
Hobbies and Hobbies If the subject of your love is their hobby, it is unlikely to encroach on your, so that you can continue to review "Game of thrones", to run at six in the morning or hanging in the pose of a bat on aerogauge. In adulthood our hobby – it is a consciously chosen form of entertainment and not a bad influence of a domestic company, being a teenager, so the person that you have feelings, must show them respect.
Habits Cooking, sports, music, useful and slightly harmful (for example, horror movies at night) – no. Otherwise, it is not you, but some perfect cardboard version of a woman in love, which is everything adapts to his beloved, even at the cost of their own identity. Always remember that there are compromises delivery of food in the house, headphones and separate leisure activities.
Work to Postpone a career and raise a family – it's your personal decision, but it is important that it was made precisely at the moment when you know that, and calculated all the risks. If you still think that the love in the world the most important thing, then just consider how much time and effort you put into your career now to push everything in one moment for the sake of perspective that you (frankly) don't even smiling.
The romantic nature Even if you're a harsh business woman, in my spare time anyway, no one is stopping you from loving tearful melodrama, bouquets of wild flowers and Dating with walks under the handle. But if your intended love is flatly against the romance and "other nonsense", that candidate does not fit your scenario. And as a grown woman you still know that this person the range ends, and then you can continue the search without sacrifice, and without sadness.
Own body and health, some people like silicone Breasts and some sex without a condom, and someone is sadomasochistic practices abruptly all sorts of shades of gray. But neither you nor your body not required to match the tastes of another human being that reaches that can even be contrary to your health. If you think that "disobeying" hurt love then this same love is an attempt to subjugate and use.
If things are so bad, spit on the significance and stubborn stream of positive energy!The ENERGY of MONEY: whether to give or to take money in debt
Bank account
Love, as you know, comes and goes, but loans and debts remain. It is for this reason that in financial matters in love is better to maintain a neutral position, balancing somewhere between "half" and "to each his own". Although any lawyer, specialist in divorce, you confirm that the last principle is even more reliable.published
Author: Polina [
Source: sunmag.me/column/16-08-2016-chem-nelzya-zhertvovat-radi-lyubvi.html
Since you no longer 16 years old, to love deeply and sincerely does not mean that you have to give the man anything he asks, for the sake of the story continued. What grown women should never sacrifice for love?
Freedom to do what you want If you imagine the life of love as a drive in the car, just sit in the back seat: first, all seem relaxed trip, during which you can relax and look out the window, and then you can feel that you are taking does not go where promised. Do not lose control of the ability to independently make decisions and take control of your life, so it is not ordered on their own someone else.
Friends Men like the stronger sex, and in fact, friends – our main defenders of life. Someone, of course, with the women's friendship is not lucky, but normally intelligent adult females missing one of the lacrimal gap to 25 years to practice to check that men of all kinds and degrees of prosperity "smooth trail" and then have to sleep on the couch from the best friend.
Hair, make-up and wardrobe He may not like what you before leaving the house half an hour doing hands, or buy three different products for hair, or keep your shoes in several closets in the apartment (because it doesn't fit, and the seasonality has not been canceled). And you, in turn, can doubt that with such whims from your relationship even less likely in the future than a dried up mascara. Better that than to go to the criticism of his clothing habits and to finish that from love to hatred one step.
Hobbies and Hobbies If the subject of your love is their hobby, it is unlikely to encroach on your, so that you can continue to review "Game of thrones", to run at six in the morning or hanging in the pose of a bat on aerogauge. In adulthood our hobby – it is a consciously chosen form of entertainment and not a bad influence of a domestic company, being a teenager, so the person that you have feelings, must show them respect.
Habits Cooking, sports, music, useful and slightly harmful (for example, horror movies at night) – no. Otherwise, it is not you, but some perfect cardboard version of a woman in love, which is everything adapts to his beloved, even at the cost of their own identity. Always remember that there are compromises delivery of food in the house, headphones and separate leisure activities.
Work to Postpone a career and raise a family – it's your personal decision, but it is important that it was made precisely at the moment when you know that, and calculated all the risks. If you still think that the love in the world the most important thing, then just consider how much time and effort you put into your career now to push everything in one moment for the sake of perspective that you (frankly) don't even smiling.
The romantic nature Even if you're a harsh business woman, in my spare time anyway, no one is stopping you from loving tearful melodrama, bouquets of wild flowers and Dating with walks under the handle. But if your intended love is flatly against the romance and "other nonsense", that candidate does not fit your scenario. And as a grown woman you still know that this person the range ends, and then you can continue the search without sacrifice, and without sadness.
Own body and health, some people like silicone Breasts and some sex without a condom, and someone is sadomasochistic practices abruptly all sorts of shades of gray. But neither you nor your body not required to match the tastes of another human being that reaches that can even be contrary to your health. If you think that "disobeying" hurt love then this same love is an attempt to subjugate and use.
If things are so bad, spit on the significance and stubborn stream of positive energy!The ENERGY of MONEY: whether to give or to take money in debt
Bank account
Love, as you know, comes and goes, but loans and debts remain. It is for this reason that in financial matters in love is better to maintain a neutral position, balancing somewhere between "half" and "to each his own". Although any lawyer, specialist in divorce, you confirm that the last principle is even more reliable.published
Author: Polina [
Source: sunmag.me/column/16-08-2016-chem-nelzya-zhertvovat-radi-lyubvi.html
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