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As strange as it may sound, but the reason for the bad luck in love is hiding in the man. And that's just fine, because it means that we can get rid of loneliness, attract love life and to build a sustainable relationship!
Website learned about how to behave in a pair of women, who usually say: "Oh, lucky in love!"
Quite often after a failed relationship it seems that the following relationship can end just the same, he is afraid of a repetition of negative experience.
Let go of your past and treat their mistakes as a valuable experience. Every event in life teaches us anything, it is very important and gratefully accept these lessons. Think, what have you learned in past relationships, what you can learn from them good and useful as it can help you in the future. Now you are on another, higher, stage, and
new relationships will also be more sophisticated and Mature.
People are so arranged (especially to women) that, as a rule, they build their relations on the example of their parents. So, if the mother, disappointed in men, instilled daughters of their views, then with high probability the daughter would have problems in his personal life.
You need to understand that each person is different and needs to think for themselves and not to feed the parents.
If you notice that your life like the life of a parent repeating their bad experience, then it's time to stop and think why this is so.
Most likely, you need to change your attitude to the opposite sex, get rid of the imposed stereotypes and begin to live
their lives and build
their own relationship.
Problems with self-esteem is familiar to most of the population of the Earth. The mistake some women is that they are trying to increase self-esteem at the expense of their partner. And there are two ways, each of which are bad:
- They build your partner on a pedestal, forming a dependence on him and lowering his self esteem, trying to please him.
- They try to raise their self-esteem the easy way — lowering the self-esteem of the partner.
No need to tie self esteem to the partner, its presence or absence, his reactions to any action. It is better to deal with them, to go to the gym or dancing, chat with friends, interested in something. Will not notice how the mood will improve, and it will appear and confidence in themselves and their abilities.
If you learned to accept yourself, it's time to accept the partner with all his faults, not trying to change and adapt to their needs.
Try did not seem to notice his weaknesses, try to avoid situations where it becomes uncomfortable. Be tactful. More focus on what he is strong.
If some features of your chosen one do not match the image of your ideal man, do not carp, do not try to alter them. Let him live as he asks his soul, be interested in what interested him. Encourage and support his Hobbies.
In some couples one partner was totally fixated on the other. He absorbed his life and emotions, against which the feelings and interests appear to him to be some minor.
That did not happen with you, try:
- Find yourself a hobby. For a relationship very useful when each partner has its own interests.
- Keep your distance: give your man the freedom and be allowed to call you first. But do not shift the burden of initiative on him, be themselves active.
- To establish contacts with old friends, family, spend more time with them.
- To find a way to raise self-esteem: read the articles and literature on this subject, in complex cases, consult a psychologist.
It should be remembered that it is from us, from our thoughts, our happiness depends to a much greater extent than on luck. Only we can allow love to come and linger in our lives.
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According to the materials of psy-day, drgeraldstein.wordpress
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