When the mechanism of PLEASURE breaks - what to do Bashny.Net

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When the mechanism of PLEASURE breaks down - SYNDROME CONSUMER - Irritable-Lethargic psychosis.
The situation is "expulsion from Paradise"

Common in adults and children, Attempts to be treated with Shopping, do not lead to healing, only temporary remission.
The mechanism of pleasure is broken — the CONSUMER BASKET full of holes — how many do not put — it will be thrown out.
As the sucking of the VOID with recurrences of GREED.
The alarming backdrop of the constant "need" to make DECISIONS — to take not to take, or is it bad - good.

When you return to HEAVEN?
— how to treat/prevent SYNDROME CONSUMER:

In CHILDREN (adults can adapt the tips for itself, reproducing in his mind the inner dialogue of personalities PARENT — CHILD)

And so do your PARENTS or adults:

1. A complete ban on the phrase "you liked" facing the child.
Instead of teaching the child to appreciate. You praise the emphasis on experience. Look it is... it's happening... so here's how!... it is. How about you? The emphasis on the MIRACLE of LIFE — instead of finding the estimated remote position — I would benefit.

When choosing this technique you are not interested in her device, you buy the function and benefit. And equipment task you like so you said, "Yes."
Saying "Yes" to the kettle you will take him and give him life — filling it with caring about you.

LIFE exists not in order for you to "LIKE" it exists and it's a MIRACLE! What do you allow to be here in this MIRACLE. SHE LIFE told you "YES" even before you started to think and to act up.

You say mom and dad are the King and Queen which shows his Kingdom to a child and it was an HONOR to see your world. You called him here and YOU're in charge, not the child. It depends on you, not him, the fact that all the "necessary" will be done, will happen and is happening already.

The child strongly suspect that still, it was the ADULTS, materialize literally all things. And when you play what he is doing here what he wants, the child begins to get nervous.
So advice number two:

2. To structure the rules, and ENCOURAGE the little Princess al the Prince, for the implementation of the rules, in your Kingdom. And Failure NOTHING. THAT is not a notation, not a lecture, but quite the N And H E G O
Do not feed the emotionally destructive processes. To seven years the child as the hawala energy — even criticism. Teach her to eat it to fish life.

Not free indulgence, and the STRUCTURE will raise the child, understanding that the effort to make it good! The child himself can guess what is good and what is bad — he doesn't need to tell it — and show in situations where you provoke him to constructive behavior — giving him the rules as a SUPPORT. Draw BOUNDARIES it's like to HUG.

Within these Boundaries there is a CONCERN that shows the child is what is important.
RULES give a sense of SECURITY. Excessive Permissiveness gives — confusion and neurosis. To carry a child up to 7 years of full responsibility for decision-making it well — it is at least CRUEL.

The children of this world are starving for Warmth and I miss the energy of spirit. Modern Children suffer from an excess of CARE and lack of ATTENTION

The ritual to cast love and care for his child only confuses the child, he feels the lack of HEAT as the missing vitamin which is necessary for the growth of the spirit.
And unreasonable indulgence creates a sense of insecurity in the absence of a framework to rely on.

The child suspects that HE is not the main big lie he called his chief and responsible in decision-making than
to do and where his true well — he doesn't know.

The WARMTH of the Soul, is not only co-suceuse hugs, and specially created conditions for OVERCOMING with the subsequent reasonable PROMOTION — which prostragivajut VECTOR CHILD

He has a chance to BECOME HUMAN and not just a CONSUMER of goods of human society.

Psychologist - Walicka Natalia. Inspired by the advice.

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