See how easy it is: what makes people successful

Anthropologists believe that ancient tribes in the average consisted of 150 people. We no longer live in the tribal system, but the number of friends remained in our subconscious at the level of the primitive village.

On average, modern humans about 150 active social connections (I'm talking about real friends with whom you communicate regularly, but not about the hundreds of subscribers in social networks, most of which you never saw). In addition, the time that modern man can devote to communication with other people is also limited. At this age, circle of friends decreases and with it often also decreases and the intensity of perfection.





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You've probably heard that the success of a person depends on other people. Only cooperating with others can create something meaningful and unleash its potential, achieving success in society. Also often say that one's environment greatly affects his Outlook and behavior. And it's true!

If you are surrounded by builders, then you will most often speak and behave as they do. If you enjoy chess and want to play in the Park with the same fans, that too left its mark on you. Your thinking, emotions and ultimately, actions will largely depend on those with whom you communicate. Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are.

Better to be a friend of the elder living in the mountains than the man market merchant.
Better to be the master in a grass hut than in the house with the red gate.
It is better to listen to the songs of woodcutters and shepherds, than to listen to street gossip.
Better to remind the world about the great words and glorious deeds of the ancients, than to lament about the depravity of modern manners. ©Hong Styczen

All this leads us to the conclusion that you should be very careful to choose work team, a life partner, a house in which you live, city, country, party to go... But you should also understand that where ever you go — there are always different people: good and bad, clever and stupid, active and passive, and radiating positivity and exhaling the negativity... But nevertheless, you should start to empty out their social networks: abandoning the unnecessary, adding those that will help you improve and cleansing ourselves from attachments and delusions in relationships with people!

Your time and energy is limited, so you should spend it on acquaintance and communication with interesting people you might learn something or inspire by example. Also should help to improve and motivate to improve others.

How often do you continue to communicate with those who you are not interested in who pulls you back, makes one weak? How long, communicating with the person you learned something new and useful for their development (gossip and news do not count)?

First and foremost is to limit contact with people who see all the negativity around which a hostile world, all liars, fools, bullies, thieves who live in a poor country with a bad government, etc. most Often, these people themselves are rude and full of obscuration that veiled their consciousness and distort reality. If you are a lot near that person, then you will be harder to stay positive, to cultivate in the heart and mind of the void and returning to the middle as in serenity.

Not thanking people for them great mercy, but to avenge inflicted on them a little resentment;

having heard about someone's flaws, not to doubt their existence, even if they're not visible; but not to believe in the goodness of man, even if it is obvious — that's the limit of callousness and the pinnacle of callousness. Those who do so, should be wary more than anything in the world! ©Hong Styczen

Of course there are relatives, friends, colleagues with whom you either can't break social bonds, or it can be done only partially. In this case, it will be your workout serenity. In addition, you can learn how to inspire these people to a more positive Outlook on life and the desire for self-development to help them to stick to the middle and not go to extremes. But in any case it is not necessary to argue and impose their point of view! Otherwise you will be in the same delusion as they stick to only one side, positive or negative, is misleading. published

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

Source: zhendaopai.org/opustoshenie-sotsialnyih-svyazey/

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