How to answer uncomfortable questions? 10 universal ways

 

Faux pas — not a sign of a bad relationship, but merely the curiosity that is not time controlled. The person who asked you a question, put in an awkward position, don't be rude in response.

Many of these questions are annoying simply because they is often asked and not always those who should know the answers. But that's why you treat them too painful is the wrong reaction.

 

Relatives not in the least interested in our personal life, colleagues Finance and career success are all around — how we look and how we behave. Sometimes it's a formal way to hold a conversation, sometimes personal problems of the person who asked, and sometimes actually disturbing for us.

 

Ability to respond to the violation of personal space — a good practice for those who tend to succumb to the pressure. No matter what question you asked, our methods will help you politely answer any of them.

1. The philosophical answer Who said that if the question is asked you, then we need to talk about you? You can simply speculate on a given topic. If you're not married yet, refer that family values in our time, much changed, men have changed, but the housing question, and a fortiori all messed up. In most cases I agree with you and we can together to complain about the oddities of life.

2. Celebrity gossip is Also essentially change the object of discussion. Tell us about what the question about your salary right now is actively discussed, as rumored in competing firms specialists are earning more (less carry out new responsibilities, often dismissed, etc.) For example, recall the history of all his former colleagues and even to strangers, even if they are already out of date.

3. The wisdom of the ages In the end you don't have to be an example to all you live the first life. But the classics on this subject for a long time already spoke — do not let wise quotes go to waste. Someone said that "every parting is a step to a new meeting", he probably meant, and your breakup with your ex. Use aphorisms from social networks or invent your own. At the same time give the impression of intellectual.

4. A white lie It might even be funny. Give out the jewelry as a jewel, friend, for a lover, sitting in a cafe for an important business meeting. Who knows, maybe your fantasy will come true, and maybe to this conversation you just will never return.

5. Comedy Why create tension where it already enough? Humor relaxes. Scheme otkusyvanija is quite simple: draw the situation as absurd. The question of when will you get married with your companion, tell him that today, just set the alarm early to get married, but that's a shame, I slept in. But tomorrow — for sure!

6. Call forwarding You have no idea how much your dress — you gave it. Why not rise through the ranks, ask my boss. When I have children, God knows. In General, Google to help, but with no demand.

7. Expert advice a win-Win because you people are always a pleasure to play the role of a specialist. In response to an awkward question to ask yourself: what can I do to get married; how to persuade her husband for the second child; where to find a good job? And generally how to live?

8. Details If we are to enter in, then the conscience. Describe all the details of your trips to interviews, love stories of adolescence and attempts to lose weight. One such conversation will be enough to discourage to contact you spontaneously.

9. Lowering importance As the purpose of your partner just to increase it. You have nothing to say because you do not ask such questions. You absolutely do not care who and when you marry — you have other problems. You are not up to the career, enough money, and happiness too. Just shake the shoulders.

10. It is true that always totally disarming. Awkward question hits a sore spot, and only works in this case. If you really hate to discuss a particular topic, then there is a problem that needs to be addressed. But for myself, not in order to avoid unnecessary conversations. published

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

   

 

Source: domashniy.ru/