10 mistakes in violent conflict

1. Do you expect that the aggressor will strike You the first to fight back.
 

"Normal kids do not start the first fight" — sitting in your head installation. But the first blow to defend very, very difficult, even professional athletes, martial artists. So it turns out as a Western, "wanted to shoot a second, but died first"

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2. When You hit a bully, You look at what the effect of Your strike

(passed out, fell to the ground, he staggered, shook his head, as if nothing had happened). Instead we build on the success of the first successful attack, You give the opponent time to recover, give him free dope in the form of a portion of adrenaline, anger and hatred towards You.

3. You lead in response to the layout of "let's go outside and talk".

Perhaps strange to You to read about it, but 90% of men really believe that they speak out. In fact, behind the door You will have to wait or an unexpected roundhouse kick, or stockpiled rod, or "command active support" of course, not yours.

4. As a continuation of the "children's" "patsanski" boast, pride does not allow You to get around from a distance a group of men,

to elect the safe route every time to prepare a defense at the entrance to the staircase. The result — a sudden splash, then it does not hurt and I do not remember, well, if you find yourself at home with a black eye, not in intensive care and not the morgue.

5. Do you really think that a traumatic gun/ pepper spray / stun gun at the bottom of Your purses will help You out in a difficult situation.

The harsh reality is that after the first splash, the person forgets about everything, and at best awkward shrugs. After the conflict comes late understanding: "I was there with a gun!"(in bartett, which selected ). Moral: the means of self-defense out of juice in advance.

6. You understand that the fight is inevitable, but continue to question and weigh their chances to win/for a peaceful outcome.

The longer You think, the more You accumulate in the blood "bad" adrenaline causes the knees to buckle and weaken. Attention dissipates less likely to successfully repel the impending about to begin the attack of the opponent. The correct variant is realized that a fight is inevitable, shut off the internal dialogue immediately attacked first.

7. I am an adequate person and anyone can settle the conflict peacefully.

Just thought some clients resuscitation. But Gopnik did not think so, he has no brains, and listen to Your desires adequate reasoning is also no no. The lack of Breasts and beats his forehead into the bridge of his nose. The correct option in the case that a fight is inevitable — see paragraph 6.

8. If too actively and successfully defend, go to jail. It's better to let a little beat Gopnik.

Sometimes there are guys who can not stop in time. Only bryznuvshie of broken skull, brains make them understand that they are "a little bit" overdone. The correct option is safe for life, but extremely painful blows to the genitals, knees, shins.

9. Screaming girls and shorts. A real man must endure.

That is exactly what the customer saw the morgue number 6, at a time when the football team they support play football. The team realized that the passion, only when the "ball" began to fall apart. The scream makes people stop, attracts the attention of others and greatly increases Your chances of escape.

10. Self-defense is still a close fight: two men came to the center of the yard, shook hands on the "battle" began to exchange blows "to first blood".

In fact, the "bad" guy might not stop at "first blood" and even the first broken
ribs. And if he feels that You win can grab a knife, or pick up a brick. The teams "battle" might not sound, and the face of an opponent suddenly hit You in the head with bricks,
it is difficult to discern.

Conclusion do not think of "guy" show, don't hesitate, hit the first street fair of fights do not happen so to achieve victory at any cost, because the reward for this victory to your health or life. published 

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind — together we change the world! ©

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