The so-called complicated relationship Bashny.Net

25 also, remember, believed that everything happens just only fools, and those who are smart and savvy ©, a simple relationship does not happen, it is bad and do not love never.

In any case do not want to hurt anyone, the more that different opinions are important, but let me speak.

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The relationship has a chance to be long-term, should not be difficult to determine. How much time a person is capable of e... s a brain to themselves and others in the nonstop mode? Well, six months, a year, in very advanced cases — a couple of years. And then it is all for... is final and the audience in mournful silence leaves the auditorium, leaving the hero alone to sweat on stage under the heat of spotlights.

The so-called complicated relationship, all of these come, gone and hours-long conversations about high — is, sorry, from a surplus of free time. This is the Wrong attitude. Serious. It's like if you go into a Bentley dealership, though your funds in the best enough for a down payment on a zhopelya in the base set. You can come to this salon for years, but all you get is the same zhopelya.

You will say that Bentley is the only thing that suits you, you will proklyate skull with all your family and friends, you will make a sad face and wringing his hands, you will spoil your life, you will elevate suffering into a fetish, but you never stop to think that all you need is a sturdy, reliable workhorse with a working AC, clean interior and proper tires that will take you from point A to point B.

Relationships should be simple as two pennies.

No matter whether he is a genius physicist or a simple Bob-Miller, no matter what his education, how many languages he speaks, how many women he had and whether he writes poetry, the only important thing is how you are comfortable with him.

If he brings you to depression, if you with it no less shitty than without it, if you know that you with it do not Shine, if he e... t you brain instead of your body, if he loves all these frazochki "I'm not ready" or "we should wait" or "I need to think" or "it's so difficult," send it on…

Whether you loved it or really it was just a whim — you will only understand much later, so you have absolutely nothing to lose.

Love in General is not measurable, love is often mistaken lust, respect, habit, jealousy, desire to get even and much more.

From "complicated" relationship you don't win anything except a headache. If you want it, it is a headache, if you can live without it, can't find the courage to admit that you need not this particular man, and that headache you get with him. And learn how to extract the headache of a more productive relationship, just warn p-R-a-V-I-l-s-n-o-g-Oh man, on Wednesdays and Saturdays you — uniforms bitch, let him be prepared in advance.

Again and again: the relationship should be simple. You're with this person to give birth to children, agriculture news, plans to build, to visit, to communicate with relatives and generally to conduct the most that neither is a primitive narrow-minded way of life. And if you think that you will pass this Cup — you sooooo much mistaken.

It's how it happens?

At first we need

высокийстройныйкрасивыйумныйбогатыйперстективныйсексуальныйромантичныйсукинсын, and only much later we realize — we ALL realize — we just need people you can rely on, someone who will be there then fucking when his head snapped right.

As always. Always understand? So reliability is an extremely important quality.

Him to help you in the MOST difficult moments of life, when well, a complete ass, and step right, step left — go nuts. Therefore, the responsibility is also very important.

You will want to share with him joy and sorrow, victories and defeats, dreams and fears, so empathy is generally kapets as important.

You will learn it backwards and forwards, you will understand each other perfectly, you eventually will get used to each other as honed on supermegakraft gear, you will continue to make trouble and to accept, because he's still not you, it's another person, though he tatachilla under you in the same way as you are under it, so tolerance, it could well simply.

And you always give each other a part of yourself, piece of a part gnawing his bachelor habits, it's fashionable now the word compromise, so flexibility is also very, very important.

And you will make important decisions together and separately, solutions that can modify your current way of life, so without trust — well, just nothing at all.

Think about that when you were twenty you nothing about any of this thought, right?

You wished that he famously rolled up to you at this super car, presented flowers and so beautiful kiss right on the lips.

And that you admired his beautiful eyes and would be like the picture. So really it doesn't matter never. Spit, beautiful or not, tall or short, slim or chubby, talker or stutterer, all you want from him is the realization that with this man — and fire and water and copper pipes, and that when he's around you very well. And that WITHOUT it you goraaaaazdo bad, than With him.

I can assure you that when you turn back in twenty years when you're still eye-to-eye, measuring its temperature and helping to write a will, although he is only sneezed once, and when you finally cease to conduct intimate conversations "and where we are going" because you have ALREADY arrived where you need it, so this is love. Love is not pre-calculated. Never.

And all these "complicated" relationship — well, damn, well, go on courses of macrame, or something.

Or help orphans. Leave your poor brain alone, he and without you a lot on your plate.

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