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The fires of hate: a way to cleanse the soul or bloat?
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THE FIRES OF HATE: A WAY TO CLEANSE THE SOUL OR BLOAT?
Hatred is a strong emotional impulse. It is not surprising that it anticipates no religious or psychological doctrine, urging you to defeat this feeling or learn to control it. It is believed that hatred should be fought, suppressing it, and developing love in yourself and a positive attitude to life. But the feelings of a man born at the dawn of civilization and has evolved along with it, helping people to survive in the unfriendly natural environment. That hatred exists its value.
Some confusion arises due to ambiguity in terminology when confusing hatred with anger. Indeed, both aimed at the destruction of external aggression. But if the rage is searing with the heat of a blind explosion, the victims of which become trapped in range, hate – ice blade, inflicting precise, deadly strikes.
The maximum danger is not only and not so much physical, as mental, and moral integrity.
Hatred can be identified even visually: the whole body tensed, the line of the lips gets tough, but look is predatory. The mind becomes clear, thoughts become cold and abrupt, clear. The brain calculates the remediation options, cutting off all that goes beyond that. All attention is focused on the aggressor, the other the emotions as if frozen, including his mind, prompting the possible consequences of such a categorical action.
In addition to the desire at any cost to destroy the object of hatred, emotion paints the awe of subsequent relief, delight eliminate the threat. I feel like a winner, defended personal space. However, the thrill of victory and the bitterness includes understanding the huge price you have to pay for it. There is a direct correlation: the strength of the intensity of the emotion is lower than clearly the person is aware of their inability to accept the consequences of hatred and to restore the lost mental balance after you have shown aggression.
Unpleasant acquaintances, navasivayam to your friends in the drudgery work that causes dissatisfaction, constant stress, stalled once romance is the power to reject all the destructive, painful, unacceptable, it gives a pure, uncomplicated hatred. That is, this feeling is natural and normal for a person, moreover, is an important vital skill, allowing you to save yourself as a person! Hatred gives you the opportunity to protect themselves from the damaging effects of outside to allocate to "me" and to maintain mental health. Point, the deadly dangers of hatred acquires healing properties, cleansing, healing soul.
However, we are all slaves of society and the prevalence of stereotypes, as well as developing in specific point in the circumstances, not allowing emotions to flow in a natural direction. Attempts to cope with feelings lead to their perversions. That suppressed hatred changes your vector, not becoming pushes, and a bonding strength.
The cause of suppression, hate, fear. Realize the price you have to pay for the destruction of the death threats, many succumb to the circumstances. The danger, perceived as a mortal, it can seem overwhelmingly huge, involving, and appropriate returns, is able to pulverize and own precious "I". Either perfect tension emotional and mental strength, caused by hatred, becomes a kind of drug that people like to feel above the usual level of their average abilities. In the end, subconsciously formed a need to experience hatred as an essential component of a fulfilling life. Suppressed expression of hate.
In some cases, a person puts out the highest peaks of the feelings that were too dangerous and able to destroy the object of hatred. And in the subsequent implements in relationship to their sadistic tendencies, getting necessary to assert a sense of superiority. In this situation the enemy even guarded, because the loss will be lost and important component of the "full" existence.
Another option is the hatred is suppressed together with other violent manifestations of nature, and the affirmation is due to receive moral satisfaction from realizing his high morality, and culture. Typically, this path leads to the formation of the masochistic personality type.
But whatever the suppression of hate, the consequences will certainly affect the formation of personality. People subconsciously need all recurring experiences feelings of hatred, turning it into a part of identity, of personality. As a result, in mortal danger and the desire to destroy the aggressor becomes the opposite sign. Now the main danger is the rejection of charged hate relationship, because without them losing a sense of superiority, the person will undergo self-destruction, "death."
But hatred can not wear yourself, it requires manifestation. Undeveloped hatred leads to destruction of self or relations with others. The emotional intensity reaches its peak in the most critical situations and pulls the guilt for unjust actions, understanding the destructive power of suppressed emotions, compounded by the inability to change the situation. There is a feeling of powerlessness, the growing despair at the view of the future, marred by the feeling even more negative manifestations in hateful ways.
To help return to a normal attitude is possible. Allowing yourself to fully open in practice "fight back", feeling a welcome triumph of the "destruction" of an object of hatred lifting from the bottom of the soul accumulated sediment perverted repression, it will be possible to fully study and address the causes and consequences of the problem.
But this is not the most difficult. The second stage is much more difficult, because for your hate opens the grief and despair associated with losing managed to become a necessary part of the consciousness of emotion. Confusion and sorrow will be replaced by the usual feelings and sensations. But well-built path will lead to the rejection of the pathological affection, will give the opportunity to start a new life, strengthening character, and bringing personality to a new level. Return of hatred, now experienced consciously, initially cleaning and protective value.
Source: maria-kudryavtseva.ru/
Hatred is a strong emotional impulse. It is not surprising that it anticipates no religious or psychological doctrine, urging you to defeat this feeling or learn to control it. It is believed that hatred should be fought, suppressing it, and developing love in yourself and a positive attitude to life. But the feelings of a man born at the dawn of civilization and has evolved along with it, helping people to survive in the unfriendly natural environment. That hatred exists its value.
Some confusion arises due to ambiguity in terminology when confusing hatred with anger. Indeed, both aimed at the destruction of external aggression. But if the rage is searing with the heat of a blind explosion, the victims of which become trapped in range, hate – ice blade, inflicting precise, deadly strikes.
The maximum danger is not only and not so much physical, as mental, and moral integrity.
Hatred can be identified even visually: the whole body tensed, the line of the lips gets tough, but look is predatory. The mind becomes clear, thoughts become cold and abrupt, clear. The brain calculates the remediation options, cutting off all that goes beyond that. All attention is focused on the aggressor, the other the emotions as if frozen, including his mind, prompting the possible consequences of such a categorical action.
In addition to the desire at any cost to destroy the object of hatred, emotion paints the awe of subsequent relief, delight eliminate the threat. I feel like a winner, defended personal space. However, the thrill of victory and the bitterness includes understanding the huge price you have to pay for it. There is a direct correlation: the strength of the intensity of the emotion is lower than clearly the person is aware of their inability to accept the consequences of hatred and to restore the lost mental balance after you have shown aggression.
Unpleasant acquaintances, navasivayam to your friends in the drudgery work that causes dissatisfaction, constant stress, stalled once romance is the power to reject all the destructive, painful, unacceptable, it gives a pure, uncomplicated hatred. That is, this feeling is natural and normal for a person, moreover, is an important vital skill, allowing you to save yourself as a person! Hatred gives you the opportunity to protect themselves from the damaging effects of outside to allocate to "me" and to maintain mental health. Point, the deadly dangers of hatred acquires healing properties, cleansing, healing soul.
However, we are all slaves of society and the prevalence of stereotypes, as well as developing in specific point in the circumstances, not allowing emotions to flow in a natural direction. Attempts to cope with feelings lead to their perversions. That suppressed hatred changes your vector, not becoming pushes, and a bonding strength.
The cause of suppression, hate, fear. Realize the price you have to pay for the destruction of the death threats, many succumb to the circumstances. The danger, perceived as a mortal, it can seem overwhelmingly huge, involving, and appropriate returns, is able to pulverize and own precious "I". Either perfect tension emotional and mental strength, caused by hatred, becomes a kind of drug that people like to feel above the usual level of their average abilities. In the end, subconsciously formed a need to experience hatred as an essential component of a fulfilling life. Suppressed expression of hate.
In some cases, a person puts out the highest peaks of the feelings that were too dangerous and able to destroy the object of hatred. And in the subsequent implements in relationship to their sadistic tendencies, getting necessary to assert a sense of superiority. In this situation the enemy even guarded, because the loss will be lost and important component of the "full" existence.
Another option is the hatred is suppressed together with other violent manifestations of nature, and the affirmation is due to receive moral satisfaction from realizing his high morality, and culture. Typically, this path leads to the formation of the masochistic personality type.
But whatever the suppression of hate, the consequences will certainly affect the formation of personality. People subconsciously need all recurring experiences feelings of hatred, turning it into a part of identity, of personality. As a result, in mortal danger and the desire to destroy the aggressor becomes the opposite sign. Now the main danger is the rejection of charged hate relationship, because without them losing a sense of superiority, the person will undergo self-destruction, "death."
But hatred can not wear yourself, it requires manifestation. Undeveloped hatred leads to destruction of self or relations with others. The emotional intensity reaches its peak in the most critical situations and pulls the guilt for unjust actions, understanding the destructive power of suppressed emotions, compounded by the inability to change the situation. There is a feeling of powerlessness, the growing despair at the view of the future, marred by the feeling even more negative manifestations in hateful ways.
To help return to a normal attitude is possible. Allowing yourself to fully open in practice "fight back", feeling a welcome triumph of the "destruction" of an object of hatred lifting from the bottom of the soul accumulated sediment perverted repression, it will be possible to fully study and address the causes and consequences of the problem.
But this is not the most difficult. The second stage is much more difficult, because for your hate opens the grief and despair associated with losing managed to become a necessary part of the consciousness of emotion. Confusion and sorrow will be replaced by the usual feelings and sensations. But well-built path will lead to the rejection of the pathological affection, will give the opportunity to start a new life, strengthening character, and bringing personality to a new level. Return of hatred, now experienced consciously, initially cleaning and protective value.
Source: maria-kudryavtseva.ru/
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