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Men's perspective on where to look for a husband
IT-manager and musician Sergey Lavrinenko wrote about where girls are better to meet for serious relationships. We decided that one of our readers could use this information.
- Many friends of single ladies complain about the difficulty in finding suitors. Of course, in the “work-house-work” mode, the probability of meeting a normal candidate is limited to colleagues, Vkontakte and pickup truckers in the subway. If you have a car, things are even worse. Well, I will try to help you avoid typical mistakes and find really good places to meet.
Let’s start with a list of places where I do not recommend looking for men: gyms, football and “football”, fishing, biker parties, etc.Your intentions without a sincere passion for the subject will be revealed in one second, and most men go to these places not to be distracted by women, so you will be disappointed.
And here are the top 10 places where, in my opinion, you can find normal men for serious relationships.
Facebook. “Vkontakte” is for the younger public, “Classmates” are older, and smart young people are more likely to communicate in FB. A distinctive feature of Facebook is that many smart and successful people have real accounts there. Boldly subscribe to them, watch who puts likes, and there already go through profiles. Photos on Facebook are usually not enough, and in life a guy may not be the same as in the Network. But in general, this is the most adequate option from online search, it is better than dating sites.
IT conferences.There are crowds of programmers, few girls and a relaxed atmosphere. But not everything is so simple: first of all, it is necessary to choose a conference with aftercare. Or at least with long coffee breaks, otherwise you simply will not get acquainted with anyone. Secondly, you need to understand a little in the subject (which is difficult for a person from the outside, when it comes to technical things). Therefore, study the subject, the topics of the speaker, look at the most common problems in the area under discussion, formulate a question and ask it to the speaker. Attention is guaranteed. By the way, the scheme works with any conferences. But for IT, remember that most programmers are introverts, so take the initiative right away.
Intelligent games.Gather your team (or find an existing one) and come and play the sports game What? Where? When? Despite stereotypes, it is not nerds who hang out here, but successful and promising young people. Of the disadvantages, you need to have the widest outlook and erudition, otherwise you simply will not be able to play.
Combat (Encounter).You don't want to play What? Where? When? Drive your car through the night city, solve crazy puzzles, and at the end hang out with the guys from other teams, discussing the game. There are a lot of interesting guys out there, and all with cars. And shared emotions are a great ground for rapprochement with each other. Cons: you will have to run, crawl, climb, often in the dirt. And it's all late at night.
Ropejumping.This is a daytime option, but for more extreme girls. First of all, it’s safe, so don’t be afraid. Secondly, the roupjumpers party is quite friendly and there are clearly more guys there than girls. The option is not for cowards, but if you get involved - forget about the men, it's like a drug.
American football.It makes no sense to go to ordinary football - except for amateur leagues, there is fun and there is no line between a fan and a football player. But to go to the game of the Litwins team and watch this spectacle is very interesting and promising. I am not a deep connoisseur of this party, but as far as I know, it is very fun and the fans do not lag behind the athletes in severity.
Knight clubs.Oh, it's a bottomless source of testosterone adepts. Adult men cut in iron armor wall on wall, and noble minstrels sing their exploits. And, of course, a good knight needs ladies, so your attention is assured. The option is not for squirrels - you will have to endure all the hardships of camping life. And be ready to make a dress.
Tourists.Drinking three days in the woods with a tent and playing volleyball is not a camping trip, but a circus. Real tourists plow mountains and thickets, drag heavy backpacks and tents on themselves for days, and all this is done largely for the sake of the process itself. Marriages among tourists, as a rule, are the strongest – if you live in the mud in the rain in the forest for several days, then in everyday life – and even more so.
Courses Belarusian Mova. Natsyanalna-areenavannym moladz Zbriaets on the Gatsiya meravatstva i abmyarkavae separate padzei. Frequent occupations are barely pink avodoma people: Spartans, mastaki, artists. I, Wyadoma, there are meetings of intelligent slapchuko. Taxama Mova is a father-in-law, she's got a cap.
Cycling coils. If you want to join the cycling community, then you will definitely need iron legs and exposure. But the pros are obvious - regularly engaged in cycling, you not only risk to get acquainted with sports and intelligent men, but also a good muscle pump. Start with cycling communities and ask for advice on a bike to buy - you'll already get a ton of attention.
And finally, don't mess with musicians. Especially rock musicians. published
Author: Sergey Lavrinenko P.S. And remember, just by changing our consumption, we change the world together! © Join us on Facebook , VKontakte, Odnoklassniki
Picture: lady.tut.by/news/relationship/474825.html
- Many friends of single ladies complain about the difficulty in finding suitors. Of course, in the “work-house-work” mode, the probability of meeting a normal candidate is limited to colleagues, Vkontakte and pickup truckers in the subway. If you have a car, things are even worse. Well, I will try to help you avoid typical mistakes and find really good places to meet.
Let’s start with a list of places where I do not recommend looking for men: gyms, football and “football”, fishing, biker parties, etc.Your intentions without a sincere passion for the subject will be revealed in one second, and most men go to these places not to be distracted by women, so you will be disappointed.
And here are the top 10 places where, in my opinion, you can find normal men for serious relationships.
Facebook. “Vkontakte” is for the younger public, “Classmates” are older, and smart young people are more likely to communicate in FB. A distinctive feature of Facebook is that many smart and successful people have real accounts there. Boldly subscribe to them, watch who puts likes, and there already go through profiles. Photos on Facebook are usually not enough, and in life a guy may not be the same as in the Network. But in general, this is the most adequate option from online search, it is better than dating sites.
IT conferences.There are crowds of programmers, few girls and a relaxed atmosphere. But not everything is so simple: first of all, it is necessary to choose a conference with aftercare. Or at least with long coffee breaks, otherwise you simply will not get acquainted with anyone. Secondly, you need to understand a little in the subject (which is difficult for a person from the outside, when it comes to technical things). Therefore, study the subject, the topics of the speaker, look at the most common problems in the area under discussion, formulate a question and ask it to the speaker. Attention is guaranteed. By the way, the scheme works with any conferences. But for IT, remember that most programmers are introverts, so take the initiative right away.
Intelligent games.Gather your team (or find an existing one) and come and play the sports game What? Where? When? Despite stereotypes, it is not nerds who hang out here, but successful and promising young people. Of the disadvantages, you need to have the widest outlook and erudition, otherwise you simply will not be able to play.
Combat (Encounter).You don't want to play What? Where? When? Drive your car through the night city, solve crazy puzzles, and at the end hang out with the guys from other teams, discussing the game. There are a lot of interesting guys out there, and all with cars. And shared emotions are a great ground for rapprochement with each other. Cons: you will have to run, crawl, climb, often in the dirt. And it's all late at night.
Ropejumping.This is a daytime option, but for more extreme girls. First of all, it’s safe, so don’t be afraid. Secondly, the roupjumpers party is quite friendly and there are clearly more guys there than girls. The option is not for cowards, but if you get involved - forget about the men, it's like a drug.
American football.It makes no sense to go to ordinary football - except for amateur leagues, there is fun and there is no line between a fan and a football player. But to go to the game of the Litwins team and watch this spectacle is very interesting and promising. I am not a deep connoisseur of this party, but as far as I know, it is very fun and the fans do not lag behind the athletes in severity.
Knight clubs.Oh, it's a bottomless source of testosterone adepts. Adult men cut in iron armor wall on wall, and noble minstrels sing their exploits. And, of course, a good knight needs ladies, so your attention is assured. The option is not for squirrels - you will have to endure all the hardships of camping life. And be ready to make a dress.
Tourists.Drinking three days in the woods with a tent and playing volleyball is not a camping trip, but a circus. Real tourists plow mountains and thickets, drag heavy backpacks and tents on themselves for days, and all this is done largely for the sake of the process itself. Marriages among tourists, as a rule, are the strongest – if you live in the mud in the rain in the forest for several days, then in everyday life – and even more so.
Courses Belarusian Mova. Natsyanalna-areenavannym moladz Zbriaets on the Gatsiya meravatstva i abmyarkavae separate padzei. Frequent occupations are barely pink avodoma people: Spartans, mastaki, artists. I, Wyadoma, there are meetings of intelligent slapchuko. Taxama Mova is a father-in-law, she's got a cap.
Cycling coils. If you want to join the cycling community, then you will definitely need iron legs and exposure. But the pros are obvious - regularly engaged in cycling, you not only risk to get acquainted with sports and intelligent men, but also a good muscle pump. Start with cycling communities and ask for advice on a bike to buy - you'll already get a ton of attention.
And finally, don't mess with musicians. Especially rock musicians. published
Author: Sergey Lavrinenko P.S. And remember, just by changing our consumption, we change the world together! © Join us on Facebook , VKontakte, Odnoklassniki
Picture: lady.tut.by/news/relationship/474825.html
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