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A few words about love...
When a person is doing well, he is pleased with himself and life, his needs coincide with the opportunities, the environment appreciates and loves it, have enough time to keep fit, about any "self-love", he will not think. He is even in a head will not come. All the talk and thoughts, begin when some of these constituent parts falls.
When the woman sleepily decides that it is more important to wash your hair or to sleep twenty minutes more, when the choice is between meeting with friends and evenings in front of TV rests in the question: where can I get a thousand rubles in a café, and then begin the painful thoughts that maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But "wrong" usually with love has nothing to do. It is associated with the inability to organize their time or to shift some responsibilities for loved ones; to recognize that the children have grown and already it is up to you to take care of themselves; low salary for work that is long overdue to change; unwillingness to deal with the "sluggish personal life", from which one humiliation on the steps.
That's all to review and understand to make the right decisions and to readjust itself — this is a genuine love for yourself. And not a pricey cream for all the money or the cream puff.
The replacement of a bad situation a little joy — it's all a typical trait of our mentality. Most of our ancestors were poor, had saved, but for the holidays beautifully dressed and put on the table that managed to get it, and what to save.
Hence, in our blood, that loving yourself need sweet and beautiful, and every day well can not be, and should not, and then... God forbid.
We even joke in the move: "something you look way too good, what happened?" Therefore, always look good — not bad. And be happy all the time — not. The latter, however, is more about the middle generation...
Author: Elena Shubina
Source: /users/26725
When the woman sleepily decides that it is more important to wash your hair or to sleep twenty minutes more, when the choice is between meeting with friends and evenings in front of TV rests in the question: where can I get a thousand rubles in a café, and then begin the painful thoughts that maybe I'm doing something wrong.
But "wrong" usually with love has nothing to do. It is associated with the inability to organize their time or to shift some responsibilities for loved ones; to recognize that the children have grown and already it is up to you to take care of themselves; low salary for work that is long overdue to change; unwillingness to deal with the "sluggish personal life", from which one humiliation on the steps.
That's all to review and understand to make the right decisions and to readjust itself — this is a genuine love for yourself. And not a pricey cream for all the money or the cream puff.
The replacement of a bad situation a little joy — it's all a typical trait of our mentality. Most of our ancestors were poor, had saved, but for the holidays beautifully dressed and put on the table that managed to get it, and what to save.
Hence, in our blood, that loving yourself need sweet and beautiful, and every day well can not be, and should not, and then... God forbid.
We even joke in the move: "something you look way too good, what happened?" Therefore, always look good — not bad. And be happy all the time — not. The latter, however, is more about the middle generation...
Author: Elena Shubina
Source: /users/26725
