Good people give us happiness and bad experience

In this life it is very important not only to receive but to give. And in addition to that you need to be able to move away from people who cause us discomfort, we should try to meet those who help us to grow and develop as a person.

Here we must immediately make a reservation and to begin with, what is absolutely "good" and absolute "bad" people does not exist. One and the same person can give us happiness or hurt. Because there is no measure to quantify good and evil.

However, we all know that certain people bring something positive or something negative in our lives.

And with each of them we have a certain relationship.





Often people act only in their own interests. And when they put themselves above others, of course, this leads to frustration, infringement of someone's interests and negative impact on others.

But they give us life lessons. And in return, each of us has a "positive" attitude, sincere and humble that will never do us any harm and won't cause pain. This relationship with the people who know what respect is... and who give us stenosisthe.

The people who give us lessons in the shower and leave scars

It is possible that, after reading the title of this article, you have to think about some specific person, or several people who are part of your past. But here it is equally important to ask ourselves, did we hurt someone out of their environment, did not cause Lee evil?

• Of course, we don't have to be good to absolutely everyone. And sometimes can cause frustration in other people.
  
  
• But if for some reason we decide that we know one way or another will result in negative consequences for another person, then it is better to try to justify their actions (at least for me).
  
  
• You may have to break off the relationship because you are unhappy or because you have ceased to love someone, etc.
  
  
• After all, there are decisions that we are forced to accept despite the fact that they have someone hurt. And the reason is singular: the maintenance of such relationships will only lead to more suffering and discontent.
  
  

Thus, it appears that at certain points we will also act (and act) so that others will be regarded as "negative". But here everything is very individual and to generalize would be wrong, it is important to consider all the nuances of the situation.

 

• But there are people who absolutely do not limit themselves in such actions. There are people who are accustomed to behave and the only way. They always try to satisfy only their own needs, ignoring the feelings of others.
• And this type of people passing through our lives, as a rule, and leaves scars in our souls. It is therefore very important to learn to get away from them (not just physically), to learn to forget and never think.
  
  
• Otherwise, we risk to remain eternal "captives" of their actions.
  
  

But more and more people we meet along the way, which can be described as "bad", but as "emotionally immature". They are just not able to establish any positive relationship due to the fact that not showing sufficient respect to others, have a clear lack of empathy (empathy) and often do not responsible for their words and actions.

But try to take this as a personal drama or failure, threatening to destroy or alter beyond recognition your life, and how experience, which will help you more confident to walk on my path.

Simple people who give us happiness

There are truly good people that are literally breathes humility, modesty and kindness. And sometimes it seems that they have some magical properties, so their actions against us are devoid of selfishness and ambiguity. Sure you got in before my eyes were images of one or more such people.

Yes, nobody argues, they are few, but more is not required, because they are able to give you all you need for happiness!

How much it means reciprocity...

It is important to consider that no gift of "himself" does not give. And if someone really good to you, try to answer this man reciprocated, it is desirable to achieve a certain balance in a relationship where both sides win and nobody loses.

Reciprocity involves the recognition of the dignity of the other person, what he does for us, respect and understanding.

He, in turn, should treat us exactly the same.

Trust not to betray

"Good" people, those that enrich our lives, helping day by day to become better, establish with us a certain, close, one might even say, an intimate relationship.

• We feel stronger because you respect us and understand that we have the support of loving us.
  
  
• The one who really loves you, will not condemn, will not be punished, and certainly never betray. He will treat you as myself (usually such people are emotionally Mature and capable of empathy and understanding).
  
  

In conclusion, it should be noted that in our way will meet "good" and "not so good" people. And all this should give us some experience.





Try not to load yourself with people and relationships, which are neither a good thing that prevent you to rise above yourself and grow as a person. Let the pain and disappointments, one day knocked on your door, to leave life forever. Learn on their own and others ' mistakes and look for new ways.

 

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