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The problem with the fear of rejection is that the pain from which fear protects is a certain tension of other feelings in order to avoid experiencing them, an attempt to hold them in order not to feel, and therefore not to realize, not to expand my picture of the world in which I may not be as wonderful as I would like.

You can't avoid feeling.It is possible to force them out of consciousness or not to enter into a relationship where they can emerge. And they will inevitably emerge in any close relationship.

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The hardest feeling a person avoids is feeling ashamed for being helpless. be better than he is.

This is one of the existential problems of man, not inferior in its seriousness to the problems of the meaninglessness of life or mortality.

How long is that? shame It is difficult to tolerate on the one hand and is necessary for the development and socialization of a person in society on the other hand. It causes people to hide behind various psychological defenses..

And there is no life behind the defenses, there is emotional loneliness and inability to develop. Shame isolates a person not only from himself, but also from emotional contact with another, from compassion and empathy for both himself and others.



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Behind every great man. . .

Wolves die alone

One might say that shame is the cause of loneliness.

Making a person shameless is making him a psychopath who destroys everything around him.

Shame is an evolutionary adaptation, and all you can do is learn to endure it.published


Author: Anna Pulsen





Source: anna-paulsen.livejournal.com/1076480.html