The problem of loneliness by Liz Bourbeau Bashny.Net

It is amazing to realize that this is happening despite the fact that we live in an era when distances are becoming shorter, and the information is more and more accessible thanks to the mobile phone and the Internet.

All this should bring people together, but, alas, this is not happening. Maximum loneliness phenomenon we observe in large cities. The more people, the greater the risk of loneliness.




Article Liz Bourbeau about loneliness

Did you know that the problem of loneliness from year to year is becoming more dangerous?

People can go to the crowd for several hours without seeing any familiar faces. They return home, where no one is waiting, they spend the evening alone, do not say a single word with anyone. So thousands of people live in large cities. In addition, people change their place of work, place of residence, and this reinforces the isolation of a problem that causes suffering from loneliness.

However, the word "isolation" and "loneliness" is not necessarily always occur together. Each of us sometimes need moments when you want to be alone.

When we decide to step back, to protect itself from the others, we are in harmony. On the other hand, a person may suffer from loneliness, even if it is surrounded by other people, family, work colleagues.

Whence comes the feeling of loneliness that causes us anxiety and sadness overtakes? From our trauma rejected or abandoned. If you recognize that you - the person who suffers from the loneliness, the first thing you need to do -. It decide to pull myself together

No one can stop the suffering of another person. However, it is very difficult to identify who is suffering from loneliness, because few dare to talk about it, considering it something shameful.

And many are not even aware of this report.

You ...

charge for different jobs and feel the void, returning alone in an empty apartment?

tell everyone that you love to be alone, and you do not need anyone to feel happy?

You expect that someone will come to you or invite you, and experiencing frustration, if your expectations are not met?

feel worse, small, not interesting in comparison with your family?

go party, constantly wondering what you are doing on it, and then trying to get away at the slightest opportunity?

These are just a few examples of how people behave, suffering from loneliness.

I noticed that among the people who shared with me his problem of loneliness, the majority does not communicate with their families. They find various excuses to no longer see their loved ones.

And here is one of the methods by which you can solve your problem of loneliness reconciled with their families. You have chosen these people before he was born, and it is time to understand what you have to have a lot to learn. Even if you can not do that now, the very decision to do so will give you a new goal that will help you from the beginning.

Those who have no family (parents, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, nephews and nieces, cousins ​​- and such cases are extremely rare), I can recommend to create a new family with your new friends. They do not appear in your house by magic.

For example, if you visit in the evening meetings, as soon as you get to know a new person to whom you feel a certain attraction and intimacy, please be courage to ask him if he wants to be your friend. The worst thing that can happen is that people will respond to you there. He can give up the opportunity to have a new friend.

This is a great solution you can take right now. Do not forget to shake TO sow ...

With love, Liz Bourbeau

Translation: Iya Zaitseva