The only reason why you have no friends

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And sometimes, though it is clear that a person does not - sitting and waiting for the weather at sea, complains or something inappropriately behaving, requires people to things that no one expect and demand actually not worth it. But there are others - who say that they have tried, what books to read, how to analyze their experience. And think - well, that's the person active, not sitting on the ground, trying to see myself from the outside, the normal thing is trying. It is difficult to understand, why it does not work?
But two things I noticed that slip by the absolute majority of voproshayuschih.I it is not even two separate points, and the two sides of the same problem.

Firstly, they somehow not properly
Secondly, it is strange they currently are, they do not find the required number of friends needed in order to make it easy to be friends with them.

I'm here once interviewed people who have many friends. We mean real friends.
. And when you begin to correspond here with these lonely people, who really want to find someone, they often complain that "Oh Nooo ... you know, such a surface friendly relations I do not mean - I want to find a friend! Here true friend!
And then they list what they want with this friend to do, that is, roughly speaking, Why it this needs a friend all-all
And in actual fact - look at these true friendship, to those whom people call her a true friend. This very rare everything.
Well, one thing, some interest, usually with another still delish. Or a couple. But a good one - it's not the kind of person who is constantly telling all his work, which go everywhere, and you spend all your free time! In general, I know very few people who could just be friends. After all, people have their own lives.

Look closely to all those who have friends and who lives life to the fullest, with much as he wants to communicate. How much are they with their real friends are seen? How often call back? Not so much out. True true friend - it's really something special
But ... again. These are people who do not have friends and supposedly do not know how to make friends (or do not have much positive
The first thing everyone says is a "heart to heart talk." This is - first mistake! < Talk heart to heart can be very much with anyone! And it must be! Not only a single best friend!
feel better! Council received! Opinions hear!
And some think that everything depends on the theme how many strangers
And about his brother in prison, and about an alcoholic mother and son about the robber - who only I was not complaining! Very often, the first day of our acquaintance! Or for a second in the life of a common cup of coffee! < I do not need this for 25 years pre friendship! talk with different
.. Or here: help. < What is something very simple can help even the neighbor
. In general, I is the fact that the people mentally imagine this "close friend" - as a vent for all occasions
Shift into a lot of friends and different! Let someone only once every six months goes to the movies with you. If you have 20 of these, you will be walking with someone in a movie often! Do not ship on one person at once the whole burden of responsibility for all your happiness. And if five out of thirty will not be for you a year's time -. Your world will not collapse

Friendship remeasured
A friendly -. underrated
And it is not so in life. In the closest friend and gay friendly intercourse sometimes - a lot of colors. And these are the best friends, too, from birth these were not. First there were colleagues, neighbors, friends. And then someone with someone approached and befriended stronger. This is a 5-minute does not work with anyone else.

< A in the preliminary and intermediate stages between zero and the jackpot can find a lot of happiness, wonderful conversations, this warmth, engagement, love, the brightest moments in life.


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